What scares me and what excites me

What excites you about the future and what scares you about the future? Explain with examples. Remember to use your own photos.
The fact that I do not have an idea about what the future looks like or will look like and am constantly in turmoil about the future scares me a whole lot. Sometimes, I wish I could just have a glimpse of what the future looks like or what the future of a particular decision or step I am about to make looks like, so I know if the decision I am about to make would be to my best interest or whether to take the decision or not even stir in that direction but I guess that is why it is called the "FUTURE"
One thing that scares me most is the aspect of marriage, I see many failed marriages, and I see and read so many horrible and scary things about marriages, I see, hear, and read people lament about their spouse's attitude toward them and the things they are facing in their marriages, physical abuse, emotional abuse, and the rest we can mention. Most of them even go as far as saying that, their partner has changed, that they aren't who they married, and that most of the characters and attitudes they are currently seeing weren't there when they were in a relationship or courtship period.
As much as people would say, I should pray, as much as they would tell me to speak positively about mine, telling me it is for those people, it can not happen to me, as much as I pray for myself and whomever my partner will be, it does not stop me from being scared about that particular aspect of my future.
Most days, I wish I could look into the future to know who to marry and who not to marry, to know what to look out for, I wish I could be able to tell or have a glimpse, just so I could be able to prepare my mind or know what decision to make, so I don't get caught up in this charade happening in marriages. Marriage scares me that most days, I tell myself I don't want to get married because I can not tell what awaits me in the long run.
What excites me about the future is the fact that I am currently an undergraduate student in my desired discipline and that a few years from now, I will be a graduate and certified in that discipline.
I am excited about the many businesses I plan on owning in the future, and the financial freedom I will be walking into. I am most excited about the future because I plan on furthering my education in my current discipline to expand my insight and gain more knowledge to be able to do more and I have plans of doing that outside country.
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I agree with you, I am somehow scared in the aspect of marriage. There are a lot of what if's that keeps running in my mind. By the way, I am rooting for you. May you achieve all your goals in the few years from now.
You are right, I wish most times the "ifs" could be answered and sorted out before we even get to that point but I guess we wouldn't know all except when we walk into it.
Amen, wish you the same. Thank you
When you meet the right person you will know, take time always never rush or feel rushed into a lifelong decision like marriage.
Keep enjoying the planning of your educational requirements to make a better future for yourself, dream big and reach for your dreams only you can do it.