Weekend-Engagement # 218 ~ I am not perfect but I am good
Good person...Would you describe yourself as a good person and if so explain why with examples and how being that way has worked positively for you or to your detriment. Use your own photos.
In these few days, I have experienced so many heart-wrenching and heart breaking situations that have placed me on the verge of making decisions that I am never going to be the good person to anyone, I am never going to go out of my way to help anyone. I now better understand the phrase that says, "It's someone that makes someone bad", this phrase is better said in Nigeria pidgin.
Regardless of my decision, I would still describe myself as a good person because no matter our hurt I get or how people hurt me, I still always give them a second chance and make excuses for their actions, I guess that's why people trample on my "being good" and "being considerate" and "my simplicity" as well.
A recent happenings made me understand that I hate to see someone in need and not be a help even at my own detriment, it has made me understand that I am always ready to go out of my way to put a smile on people's faces but then, what I get in return is always heartbreaking.
Now, when this incident happened and because of how hurt I was, I decided to confide in a close friend about the issue, she told me I shouldn't have gone out of my way for such situations and went on to say that, if I had said No, the person would still have looked for someone else who would have helped them and that struck me hard. I ended up feeling used and broken.
I would never ever hurt anyone intentionally, and if I do and realize I did, I would apologize because I know what it means to be hurt by someone's action, so I am always careful with what I do to people and make sure to sit anf critically think before i make any actions. I always make sure to put myself in the next person's shoe and how I would react before I make any decisions or take any actions.
I don't understand why people deprive so much joy hurting people and not feeling remorseful about their actions. I am not perfect, I make mistakes and hurt people too but regardless I would definitely describe myself as a good person.
I am emphatic, considerate and have conscience and it pricks me when I hurt someone except on occasions when the person deserves it, but it gat to be a payback. If you hurt me and I realize it was an intentional action, I will make sure to hurt you back, so you got to feel how I felt when you hurt me, most times we just have to give people a taste of their own bitter pill and sit and watch them react while you smile at them.
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