You are in charge

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I have a friend who always laughs, and because of it, it becomes annoying sometimes, especially when we are all trying to be serious he will say something to make us laugh again. There was a day we got serious about conversation and I was forced to ask some questions like Don't you have anything you think about because he always seems happy about everything even in difficult situations he will laugh and after my friend explained everything he was going through for me, I realized that he is strong and not all of us can survive what he has gone because even though he is going through so many challenges, he did not fold by them.

I know we all have different ways of approaching things, but my friend's method is quite different. I'm the kind of person that I don't let my challenges control me because I know that being worried or experiencing some kind of negativity will not change the situation it is the work I put in that will make the difference and that is why I make sure my challenges don't control me. It's not as if those challenges will not bother me, but I don't put myself in a situation whereby they control me because they are the external things that I cannot control, and the only thing I can control is how I respond to them.

Our reaction matters more than the complains

When faced with challenges in life, it's easy to fall into the trap of worrying and complaining about our mistakes. However, dwelling on past mistakes only takes away valuable time and prevents us from taking action to change our situation. Instead of focusing on what we could have done differently, we should shift our attention to what we can do next to overcome our challenges. By using our time and energy to take productive action, we can move forward and achieve success.

This comes as evidence when we look at how difficult it is to achieve so many good things that we want, but immediately we stop complaining and start writing it out, We realize that some of our goals are even achievable, and it will not take much time for us to achieve them because we only spend time complaining about things we could have done better. We don't know how easy it is for us to achieve those goals. Sometimes, you might not even have a clue about achieving them, but because we are putting effort day in and day out everything works out.

We in total control

You can choose to laugh about your situation and get to work or you can choose to complain, be sad, and be angry, and not do anything. It is easy for us not to do anything and just complain, but the true power lies when we don't let everything we can not control overpower us. We are in total control of how we can respond to situations, and immediately, we realize that by doing something and putting ourselves in a situation whereby we are in charge of our future, it becomes easy for us to win over our challenges. No matter how big our challenge is. It is normal for it to bother us because we are all human beings, but if we don't do anything about it and let it control us by making us worry, it will shape our future in a bad way.

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