what is risky for you may not be risky for someone else
One of the things we must learn to take is risk. I see people complaining about taking risks, but life itself is risky because you’re not getting out of life. Everything we do in life comes with its own risk, but that risk is not the same. We have what we call calculated risk, the kind of risk that you should take. Whether it is calculated or not, wanting to take a risk just because somebody takes a risk does not mean that it’s going to work out for you.
Just because something worked out for your friend or even your family doesn’t mean it will work out for you you and it might be the same thing, but you will still end up failing simply because what is risky for you may not be risky for someone else. This is one thing that took me so long to understand when people choose not to follow your path or not to follow or take the risk that you took it doesn’t mean that they are scared, but I have analyzed it that what works for you might not actually work for them and this might be down to personal reasons.
Make sure it makes sense for you
This also applies to when you are receiving advice from people because most of the things that happen to us in our lives are personal and we are the ones who understand what we go through and how life is dealing with us, also what you can do. You must know your limitations and your strengths, if you put all these things together, you realize that what works for your neighbor might not work for you. The kind of advantage, and people around you or your Neighbourhood may not have the same advantage as you which are the things you must put into consideration when you’re trying to take a risk or when you’re trying to take advice.
This should even stop you from taking the risk or listening advice advice, it may affect you to do it differently. It is very important not to follow any advice, blindly or to take risks blindly just because it works out perfectly for your friend. You must consider everything, including your health, your background, your family, and the kind of people you have around you because all these things we play a major role at the end of the day.
Learn to create your path
We must not be carried away by following advice or taking risks blindly, we can think of ways that it will make sense and work out perfectly for us. If you follow another person‘s path you might regret it. It might be a disaster for you and you might take the same advice, but do it differently and get the same results. You must know your limitations and your strengths. Work things out with it but always remember that just because he worked out for A doesn’t mean It will work out for B. Life is no programmed.
Thanks for your time.
Many of us know what is good for us and for our situation. But sometimes, hearing another person’s opinion can be comforting, even if we’re not ready to take it into consideration.
I’ve seen friends in toxic situations who still don’t want to leave, even after asking for advice and receiving plenty of it.
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We're wired differently.