Impressions

We can’t judge people by the way they act towards us or the way they talk,people tend to have different personalities depending on the situation. Some will say first impression matters but to me I don’t feel the same,if you judge someone by what you see in them on your first meeting or encounter then you’ll definitely have a lot things to complain about,I can be in a cheerful mood today and you meet me and I treat you nicely but that doesn’t define me,it doesn’t count as a part of me, the same thing goes for people who turn out to be very offensive or annoying,some people are not gifted with the use of words,we are different In nature,people can’t be the same,there are various instances but I’m emphasizing on the first impression you have towards different people.

There was a particular day I went on a walk with my friends and we were in good mood,we played and smiled and the atmosphere was cool,then I met this guy we had a conversation and for the fact that my friends were there I couldn’t act harsh or something so we talked and that day went,we met again one particular afternoon I went to get supplements,we exchanged greetings and the guy was striking another conversation,obviously I’m a kind of person that hates people trying to force convos,so we talked and all the he asked for my number,on a normal day I would decline but because I already entertained conversations between us so it’ll look somehow if I don’t give him,I’m a very gentle person normally,the guy texted me and I replied but he wasn’t feeling the vibe he felt when we first met,what I’m trying to derive in this narration is that the first time we saw,I was in a cheerful mood so he thought I was that kind of girl that is calm,I’m actually calm but I don’t entertain unnecessary conversations,I saw no need to relate with him so I started ignoring him,he then said something that what happened I seemed nicer in person and I’m like I was just in a good mood that day so don’t have the mentality that I’m very calm and accommodating,if you meet someone for the first time don’t carry a particular mentality In your head about the person,don’t judge a book by it’s cover.

Learn to know people more before coming to an assumption that this is what the person is and this is how the person behaves,if we can have this mentality and live our lives without judging the society will become a better place.