DOUBLE DATING:- NOT AN OPTION
hey fellow havarians, greetings and wonderful morning, afternoon, and night to all of you....no matter the part of the world you are.....
weekly prompt wonderful topic "DOUBLE DATING" before I venture into the topic with full speed I will like to do what my teacher @ayakaliman usually use to say don't start what you don't know.....
so we begin by defining terms...... "DOUBLE DATING" is two words double and dating....so what is double...
The English dictionary defines DOUBLE as Made up of two matching or complementary elements......AND
DATING as a form of romantic courtship typically between two individuals with the aim of assessing the other's suitability as a partner in an intimate relationship or as a spouse.
Judging from this definition facts I can say that dating in it self it already between two which means it a double on it own.....
so adding a double on a double means it beyond DATING... Cause dating only occurs between two people.....so what is DOUBLE DATING.....
DOUBLE DATING in my own understand is the act of keeping two people with or without there knowledge in order to deceive them, use them, abuse them, rip them and end up choosing one or dumping both to your own satisfaction......
Though traditionally Double dating can mean two different couples(Four people) agreeing to go on a date together in order to strengthen there relationship....
But on the context of the prompt topic double doubting as in having more than one intimate partner is BAD....with the following reasons.....
- It a prove of lack of focus
- lack of full commitment
- prove of unfaithfulness
- lack of trust.
- Prove of financial illiteracy.....Yes
- E.t.c
In our society today Double dating has become the order of the day...which very bad imagine keeping some like a scape that will be use for Christmas...and after everything you dump them....
it is a wastage of there time, money, love, attention, care, energy, and life in general...I don't know oo but for me it a waste of love to discover that you love the wrong person.....
Engaging in double dating is chicken thing to dol....if your partner is unfaithful end it straight rather to have a backup plan....
people are not machine that we use and change like clothes, for the value of love and enhancing a community of love Double dating is not an option....
No matter what your excuse might be Double dating is not an option it is only the chicken way out.....
Imagine if you are the victim of this very double dating how will you feel.....
it not wise to engage in it because it inhuman keeping an intimate relationship with someone that you later dump for the sake of being afraid.....
Even Religious beliefs term it to be bad.....
hope this blesses you...see you again in next week prompt topic...
have a bless day ahead
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Exactly people are not machine that we use change like clothes, you made a great point here.
Double dating should definitely not be encouraged because it leads to heartbreak most times and even affects people in a way they may never recover from. There have been people who have promised never to never be committed to a relationship ever again just because they found out their partner was having an affair with another person.
Double dating is never a subject to encourage among young adults. The scary part is that it makes one turn to a liar and may follow one into marriage.
I agree that it's a chicken way out. And like you asked, how will one feel if they were to be on the other side of someone double dating? No one will honestly agree, except if course they are not really into that relationship. There's no any genuine reason to double date.