DON'T HOLD YOURSELF BACK

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Oftentimes, we harm ourselves either intentionally or unintentionally through the things we do to ourselves, that is, some of our actions cause more harm than good to us. One of these numerous actions is holding ourselve back from going for what we want which makes it difficult to actualize our full potential.

We tend to set unnecessary limits and restrictions for ourselves that do not make us pursue our dreams or goals. We truncate our dreams and ambitions by holding ourselves back from going all out for that which wr have dreamt of.

It is not always a bad idea to set limits and have certain restrictions in life, however, if you're going to set limits or restrictions for yourself it has to be healthy and progressive ones. Not the ones that will keep you stagnated in one phase for too long because you couldn't live your dreams. It is important that anyone that want to grow should not set unnecessary and unwarranted limits for themselves.

Well, the reason some people set these limits for themselves include the fear of failure, rejection, disappointment or embarrassment. There are people who hold back from starting their business because of the fear of not succeeding at it even though they had that big dream.

Some people hold back from leaving an abusive relationship because they are afraid that they may not be able to live without their partner. Some people hold back from speaking the truth because of the fear of being lashed out by others. The fact that most people don't understand is that the more you hold yourself back from doing the right thing you're holding yourself back from living your best life.

The moment you make the decision to hold yourself back from doing the right thing, you're limiting yourself from fulfilling your potential and living someone else's life - a life that doesn't give you genuine happiness.

It may be difficult to start and maintain a business due to various factors that may be attached to it but if you don't try at all you'd not know if you will fail or succeed. Sometimes, it may get worse before it gets better. Letting the thought of the fear of failure cloud your thoughts may hinder you from making any progress in life.

Even when you try and you fail let it be a motivation for you to attain your fullest potential. In all you do ensure that you take full responsibility for your actions and do not hold yourself back from taking big moves.

Life is full of ups and downs, however, it is important to focus more on the postives than the negatives. You will fail. You will be broken but dont give up on your dreams. Don't let your actions of holding back be a barrier to your breakthroughs.