RE: DOUBLE DATING!! AND ITS INFLUENCE!
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This dude 😅
Yeah, all humans are imperfect but then is it a yardstick to keep doing wrong? No sir. I guess you know that. One bean cannot really spoil the rest, except the rest decide to follow suit. My point is don't use the fact that people do something and make a generalisation. It's not right sir. I stand by it again that there are genuine people, and I'm not pointing myself here cos I've seen genuine ones truly. And you make it seem okay to double date till marriage, you know how many suffer marital unfaithfulness because of the character of double dating they developed? The misconception is that, when you marry it is now settled. Sorry, it's a fallacy, it's just a continuation of what one was already doing.
I stand by it still bro, that double dating is wrong and we can find no true valid reason to it if we're being honest. A question, how would you feel to be at the end point of a double dating partner, where you're the side guy? Maybe when we reason like this, we'll see things in their true light.
Thank you for the opportunity to argue with you, I appreciate bro 😅
We believed on the things we were told!
What if the right is wrong! And the wrong is right?
You stand by it that there are genuine people! Probably holy! or Saint perhaps. U and I know there's none on earth!
It might sound weird to u!
There's no right nor wrong!.
people suffer in marriage this days due to lack of planning and understanding!
how would i feel to be at the end point of a double dating partner, where I'm the side guy?
While!
I'm used to it that no girl has one guy she's dating. And I admit it!
It's 9ice debating with you! @daverick😊
It's not about the things we were told, it's about the things we came to know. Sorry, there's right and wrong, and that's why there's the law to catch up with you when you do wrong. Try going to steal and be caught, then I guess when you see a tyre wrapped around you, you'll agree there's a right and wrong. Nobody is a saint, yes! But people are trying their best to be genuine so don't make it look like all their efforts are wasted. You probably haven't seen any, but I have so I can't agree with such assessment you make. It's probably and highly from a stereotype you had, what you might have been told as well. And, planning and understanding isn't the only reason people suffer in marriages. Meet people and listen to their testimonies you'll know better.
Sorry to say, but much of your assessments if you'll agree in all honesty are based on sentiments and stereotype. And, I can really see why. Cos by the statement that you admit that no girl has one guy, I can understand better. But again, it's a bias analysis from you for whatsoever reason. Please don't generalise and disapprove people who are being real bro. For what it may, continuing with such a mindset will only pollute you in marriage tomorrow.
And I don't think you really answered my question,"how will you feel to be at the end point of a double dating partner?" You just made a statement. But you can assess it in all honesty. Drop your bias!
Thank you once again 😁
Damn! wassup with this dude!🤔
There's no right nor wrong!(logic)
What told you, you were right or wrong?
Who told you blue is a blue colour? If blue were named red, we will still believe it's red!
Talking about constitution or law!
Just because it's a law doesn't make it right!
Nature gave it to us for free, but we turned it the other way round!(things of the world)
The law were made to govern only the commoner, like u and i
Talking about genuine people! "IDk"
Who u came across with, that makes u confide in him or her!
Life it's seems like a movie, a filmstrip. I wish the scene could be shown like a movie!
You're right based on your perspective I guess. And I'm not wrong, based on my perspective perhaps!
We view life in different ways based on experience!
Talking about suffering in marriage. Marriage were never made to be enjoyed but to endure "not even sx"
I didn't generalised it, but people who claimed to be good happens to be the bad ones! People can false act for their selfish interests. Sometimes times I wish I could read minds!🤦♂️
how will i feel to be at the end point of a double dating partner?
The person I might be dating is not a "Saint" either am I.
We gat rights and choice.
If I want love, I first go the pain!
If I'm going into a relationship, I knew what I'm going into!
I never expect trust in it! After all we are all imperfect!
Instead I expect mistakes from it which can be corrected! No one is above mistakes. One thing I believed.
I accept everything that comes wrongly as a mistakes and moved on! And I don't criticize.
I hope u don't get me sha! @daverick😊*
Bro, sorry oo there's right and wrong. There's no any deception as logic there. So you mean is a sense, when I pick your stuff with the sole aim of stealing it, I can be termed right? Or we gang up and beat an innocent person we can be termed right in a way? I guess the killings and kidnappings can be said to be right too. Sorry, but we have to be honest. I've understood that when people don't want to take responsibility to do the right things we find excuses as "logic" to back them up. The funny thing is that deep down we know it doesn't add up.
Yes, I've met genuine people and I can confidently say it anywhere to even defend them. That a person is genuine doesn't mean he or she won't have flaws, that's where you're misunderstanding. You expect someone to be just so perfect? Come on, please!
Marriage is never meant to be enjoyed but endured? It's not true sir. I guess you've heard people say that a lot and somehow it became a part of your ideology. Marriage is meant to be enjoyed and endured sir. Why go into something you'll only endure all your life? It's a fallacy bro.
And life is not like a movie, there are no tricks here. What you do determines what you get. Life is life. Some perspectives are not okay. I'm not making my perspectives about everything seem all right or okay. In case you find it so. But where I've observed and found truth, I recognise it.
Well, you made generalisations. You can go back and read some of your previous comments you'll see.
Sorry for dragging this for long. This is your post and you have the right to your opinion. I hope you do get me too sha 🙂
Wow! This dude never seems to give up!
If i do generalised it, i accept it as mistake! Because I'm not above it or perfect!
You just stand firm!😎
Lemme reserve my opinion till some other time!🙌
It's really 9ice meeting you @daverick!
Yeah, till some other time. I actually dropped my pen already 😄
Sorry if I got you wrong, we .ake mistakes, true.
Nice having this conversation 😎
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Wrong me ke!
Not at all.
No offence!
Thanks for stopping by! @daverick