Habit I dropped

Hello everyone..Trust everyone is doing great. Anyways it's a beautiful time to hop into this beautiful contest. Everyone at time have a habit that they could start or stop. A habit can be defined as a something someone does regularly without thinking about it.Like someone getting up from bed and quickly dressing, or greeting your elderly ones when you see them. These are things one do regularly that can be part of him with time. I had this two habit I battled with for long time, I listened to all motivational speakers but none semmed to be, so then one day, I really asked myself what my problem was. I then identified my problem was fault, procrastination and negative talk about myself.

When I had pointed where fault and became sensitive and I quickly made adjustment. Habit is like addiction or should I say they're just brother.They won't leave you,until you've decided to stop like masturbation, watching porn, stealing, not being straightforward.All these always start little but with time, they'll turn into a full blown habit.

Making my Adjustments, I start by parting things that would make me venture more into the habit, for the procrastination, i avoided wasting time unnecessarily. And also created schedule to guide in my choice of activities and help to manage my time effectively. And for negative talk, I came to understand that no one have the right to talk negative things about me except myself. And people's opinions don't really matter in my life. It's a decision to let people opinions affect you. The other day I was going through my fyp on tiktok and I saw something that caught my mind. A girl commited suicide just because people said negative things about how horrible she looked. I was transfixed because I was wondering why someone went as far as taking her life just because people said negative things to you. I used to be sad and feel dejected when people say horrible things about me but when I came into realization of myself. I discovered am the only one who can make my self feel bad.

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