Hello holos& lotus community! What a pleasure to greet you and participate in the initiative promoted by @ damarysvibra , [ser resolutivo] (https://peakd.com/hive-131951/@damarysvibra/ser-resolutivoorororbeing-resolute). To be resolute is to prepare ourselves for life, to have the ability to solve situations that arise throughout life and to try to have the necessary tools to solve them, to be able to observe, understand, plan its resolution and then adjust it to the situation.

Being decisive is a way to grow as an individual, because you do not let yourself fall in front of problems, you seek to find the solution to them. For any person it is important to be decisive, it denotes that he is a person determined to solve the negative issues that appear on his horizon, in an efficient and effective way, with determination, courage and conviction that he will overcome the obstacles that arise, at all levels and in all profiles.

It is difficult to keep calm, positive attitude and optimism in adverse situations, you have to be very analytical, a creative strategist and able to cope with the anguish, anxiety and anxiety, when it comes to overcome the reverses that life gives you. The decisive person is characterized by knowing how to identify the problem and the cause in a conscientious way, that is why he does not make decisions on the run and chooses the most viable option and that has less collateral damage, that gives him the assertiveness necessary to put the confidence in him, and if it is the case that this solution fails, he reanalyzes the situation with more emphasis, focusing on not making the same mistake.

How to be a decisive person

The decisive person is a stable individual, aware of moral, social and emotional values, with the ability to calm down in times of increased pressure, concern or risk, that is, to have the power of self-control in the face of a challenge. The individual must have the ability to visualize if it is really worth facing the problem, if solving it will be productive for all parties. Another issue is the management of emotions when facing the facts, getting intimately involved in the problem will hinder the visualization of its solution, so we must see everything that happened with cold eyes, that do not blind us. When making a decision, this can never be carried by the personal ego (mixed feelings, rage, sadness, anger, feeling of loss, among others), or make hasty decisions, the must be, that these thoughts should be focused on the conflict, based on self-confidence and how ideal you are to solve the conflict.

Being decisive leads you to be a leader, with a great capacity to develop in many fields, to be autonomous and independent, always ready to contribute in whatever is needed for common productivity, with an open mind to visualize all solutions, no matter how stubborn they may be and their possible consequences and repercussions, whether positive or negative; therefore, you cannot be impulsive, but rather analytical, with the capacity to put the options on a scale and from there make decisions and communicate them to discuss them responsibly and finalize the challenge.

In view of all that being resolute implies, I consider myself a person who when faced with problems solves them, when I do not know the subject I rely on someone else to help me understand and meet the challenges, and at the same time I nourish myself with everything that teaches a new experience. I also believe that a decisive person is a vitamin person, because he does not lean on others and rather supports the situations to be overcome in a beneficial way.