RE: [EN/PT-BR] The forms of learning
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Different stages in children's life demands different method. A child who is not up to the age of reasoning (2-10yrs)understands only 2 things at that stage, which is cane and deprivation. They easily relate restriction towards a thing to the pains they felt when you used the cane on them. But the bad thing is that some parents who don't know how to control their anger take it to personal while using the cane on their kids, which I'd very bad.
Secondly, children at the age of reasoning must be taught by way of advice and dialogue. This builds in them confidence in you. They see you as their gist mate and friend. They learn to trust you. And at this stage, training becomes so serious in the way we act and relate with persons around us, because they are watching.
You made an incredible analysis of all this, I really liked what you shared with me and it really makes sense. As my children have passed this younger age, they are now starting to understand things better and with that it becomes easier to talk to them, that's what I've been trying to do. Thank you very much for sharing this knowledge with me, a big hug.
You welcome.
Thx ^^