So many of us have experienced this,, that awkward space where we’re expected to smile and engage politely, even when inside we’re feeling uncomfortable, judged, or emotionally drained.
Your words shine a light on something rarely talked about,, how sarcasm, backhanded comments, and forced affection from relatives can leave lasting emotional bruises. And the worst part is how it’s all masked as “normal” or even “loving” behavior.. the forced small talk, the unnecessary probing into private life, the show-offs, and those pretentious punchlines that really aren't funny at all.
It’s completely okay to protect your peace,, setting subtle but firm boundaries doesn’t make you rude,, it makes you strong. Sometimes, even a quiet shift in your energy and limiting your emotional investment in those conversations can make a big difference. That's what I usually do, it works all the time.. I don't pretend.. I let them feel my disinterest.. Just a deep sigh, and my problems are gone 😆..
And when pretending is absolutely necessary, let it be for your own well-being, not to meet anyone else's expectations.
Your level lowered and you are now a Red Fish!
So many of us have experienced this,, that awkward space where we’re expected to smile and engage politely, even when inside we’re feeling uncomfortable, judged, or emotionally drained.
Your words shine a light on something rarely talked about,, how sarcasm, backhanded comments, and forced affection from relatives can leave lasting emotional bruises. And the worst part is how it’s all masked as “normal” or even “loving” behavior.. the forced small talk, the unnecessary probing into private life, the show-offs, and those pretentious punchlines that really aren't funny at all.
It’s completely okay to protect your peace,, setting subtle but firm boundaries doesn’t make you rude,, it makes you strong. Sometimes, even a quiet shift in your energy and limiting your emotional investment in those conversations can make a big difference. That's what I usually do, it works all the time.. I don't pretend.. I let them feel my disinterest.. Just a deep sigh, and my problems are gone 😆..
And when pretending is absolutely necessary, let it be for your own well-being, not to meet anyone else's expectations.