DO YOU EVER GIVE UP ON SOMEONE? FRIENDSHIP EDITION
Is everyone solvable? Do you give up in people at one point in time?
The reason for asking this question is very dear to me and I will want to hear you all opinion and insight about it🙏.
One of the things I have learnt so far so to ask for help and to get it when offered.... To me I don't think it about give up in someone . I think it is that helping someone is a team sport or work and if you find out you are a one player in their life then you are only there to assist to a limit or make the pass for them to make the goal but if they won't take the pass then you have no choice than to give the pass to another player and stop throwing the ball at them.
I still don't think it's about giving up on people or friend but taking totally responsibility for oneself. I cannot help you if you cannot be involved to help yourself. I will say this point blank... If You are not going to be involved in this team, there is no point to be involved either. Most time it feels like you are trying to help but still you are the only player in the team and your efforts are just going in Vail.
One thing I have realized is that I have Alway and will always have the will to be helpful to all my friends and family but I understood my part and I know when to stop pushing so hard.... I will always be there for you after trying to help some many times but eventually with time, I will back down and when you are ready maybe it just bad timing or I don't fit in well into your life has at that moment or you have soo much on your mind and life going on presently but just know I will be still be there no matter what but you have to call me then ... There is no more throwing you the ball or trying to make you understand my view about it.
This has always been my thoughts and Mandate for a while to my friends but recently I realized I might not have been helping them get back on their feet in the right path or I have just been repeating the same pattern of how I expect things to work or the way I expected the outcome to be. This then drove me to do a research about listening and being heard... Hmmm
A BIG QUESTION
HAVE WE BEING LISTEN TO PEOPLES PAIN?
One of the greatest power to helping people is paying Optimus attention and listening to people when they talk about our thing might have broken them or affected them negativity .
Listening can only be justified when the person speaking feels heard and understood. Being an emotional support could be hard something but for you to help them in moment of need then you must be willing to listen and be in pursuit of meaning.
Source
Helping others is a delicate balance between showing up for them and recognizing their responsibility in their own growth. It’s not about giving up on people but understanding the limits of your role in their journey. True help comes from listening with intention, being empathetic, and creating space for others to feel seen and understood. However, it’s also about knowing when to step back, not out of frustration, but out of respect for their life and path.
but the question still remains.
DO YOU EVER GIVE UP ON SOMEONE?
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