I expect less from people
I hate to feel disappointed, I know many numbers of disappointment come when people placed a demand on people and the people can not give up to that demands.
There was a time something like that happened to me, I think it was towards this year October or so, I placed a demand on clothes from my friend's shop, but getting to the exact date we agreed that he was going to deliver the clothes to me, he didn't do it, I have to overlook it because inside of me, I know it wasn't going to work, since he has failed me on the first instance.
Meanwhile, if I didn't want anything from my friend, I wouldn't have felt that way, my friend is not like me, because I was saying, i wouldn't have done the same thing to him, it wasn't like, he was to give me the clothes for free, but it was that, I will make the payment to him once I see the clothes, and which he agreed but getting to the period we fixed for him to deliver those clothes to me, he failure me.
I wasn't glad about it anywhere, but I learned a lesson to never depends on anyone in anything I want, so that they would not failed me.
When I was in school, my class mate once cried so bitterly because he was expecting his Aunty to come visit him on that day but her Aunty didn't make it, she sent a call through to him, that she would not come on that day, but she fixed to visit him on another day, although she still come on another day.
Yet, this my class mate was feeling so foolish when her Aunty did not make it on the first day, he was so hurts, and it was our class teacher that talk to him, to get that bad feelings out of his mind and better expect her Aunty on the good day, she said she was coming.
That is why it is not good to expect something so bad from people because you might not get enough from them, people do not give people the best that they look for, but the only person that is going to give you what you want is you and yourself.
Too much expectations leads to heart break, I do not expect too much from people, I believe on the things I do, and I see my own thing as the best, and in this way I have been great with myself.