RE: TRAUMA’S LASTING ECHOES

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What can absolutely at a profound post. Seeking connection or more importantly, empathy during and after traumatic events is natural, but it can - if left unchecked - become a black hole where all a person can see is their pain and they suck in everyone they love. It's not intentional, but yes, if this behavior is repeated and cycles are formed, the empath can become a narcissist themselves, which is tragic, but that is how the cycle of abuse and trauma are passed from generation to generation. It's absolutely imperative to look for these red flags, while also providing empathy towards people who have been through awful and tragic events. As someone just beginning to surface from my own trauma experiences, I hope to never cause harm to those love, and that includes me.



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This is beautiful, Claire. Facing any form of trauma is not easy and if there is no one to care and advise those in such situations, they just do things the way they think is best and sometimes they find it hard to tell between what is okay and what is not because of their past experiences.

I’m glad you are beginning to surface from your own trauma and I hope you are completely in control of it soon. 🫂💜

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Luckily for me, I have the most incredible husband person in the world. However, it's not fair to have him shoulder all my issues. It's a heavy load to carry, which is why I am seeking professional help.

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I know right? That’s really sweet and thoughtful of him. And it’s also thoughtful of you to seek professional help. 🥰

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definitely! I have an appointment on Thursday. Although it's government health which means very long waiting periods for anything to happen, at least I am in

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Hopefully it won’t be as stressful as it’s seeming! Just prepare for the worse and hope for the best. 🥰

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That s pretty much my mindset. I honestly don't want to go... I've been there before and they were super mean to me

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