Give the kids privacy the deserve it.

Good day, amazing people of the Hive Blockchain. Welcome back to my blog. It is another edition in the #hivelearners community. I am so delighted to participate in this week's prompt, kids and privacy.

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Life is phrase by phrase and parenting are one of the phrase everyone will experience believe me it not easy to bring up this kids to be useful in the society you can be available for this kids do anything for them to be useful to the society but at the end the will bring disgrace to you and the society at large and there are some kids who didn’t receive special treatment or attention from parents and the grow up to be best more than those that the parent provided everything for. I have come to realise that parenting is very difficult; there is a lot of responsibility on their shoulders. If a child fails, the blame will be on the parent. That is why every parent needs to monitor their child, know what they do and know the people they mingle with.

These kids are human; there will be a time they need privacy. I always call it a time of 'let me be'. During that period, they may shout or scream at any adult that tries to come between them and their personal space. I understand as a parent you are just watching out for these kids; you want to make sure they are okay, they are not exposed to risk and cyberbullying, or probably doing something crazy behind your back. Another part of you wants to give them time, but due to insecurity, you just want to be involved in everything they do. Even when you try to give them privacy, it will seem like you are giving them too much of the privacy. I know how it can be; that is why I said parenting is not easy.

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When I was a kid, my parents didn’t give me privacy at every moment of my life. My mom especially wanted to know what I was doing in my room. It became worse when I was a teenager. Before I knew what was happening, my mom was at my door, peeping at me just to make sure I wasn’t doing anything crazy. My life back then was from school to church. I will not lie; I was always upset with the way my mom was monitoring me. As a child, I didn’t enjoy freedom. It was after I finished my secondary education that my mom started giving me a little privacy. At that point, I was no longer angry with my mom because I got to find out my mom’s fear.

As a parent, you should give these kids the opportunity to do what they like. They deserve privacy. Even as a kid, I loved it when parents gave their child privacy. Just study your child and know when you should be involved. Just give these kids a break because they need privacy. I understand that you are their parent, but there should be boundaries.

When is the right time to give these kids privacy? For me, once a clock teenager, such a child needs privacy and respect for their boundaries. That doesn’t mean you should not check up on them, but there should be a limit to it. You can’t just open their door; you should knock and wait for their response before opening the door, but at their younger age, there should be an open-door policy.

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I don’t think there is anything that is sensitive, like giving kids privacy, because as a parent you want to be involved with your kids’ lifestyle. That is okay, but it is very important that you respect these kids’ privacy as they grow.

This is my entry on the ongoing weekly prompts #hivelearners #hl-w185e2 topic: kids and privacy.

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