RE: I told you! - Ladies of Hive Community Contest #245 [ES|EN]

I identify with what @auelitairene describes: everyone needs to live their own process in their own way and in their own time. The story with your friend is very moving, as is your work as a therapist: being available, wanting the other person not to suffer, understanding that pain isn't always bad and, as you say, sometimes it's the only thing that truly awakens us.
As is the promise to yourself to never say "I told you so" again, especially in a situation that requires a lot of care, like those relationship conflicts. It's great that with time the pain has passed and, together with your friend, you see it with a different awareness.

Choosing cats for what you've learned from them is very valuable. Being without domination, loving without absorbing, witnessing without resolving, and trusting that everyone has their own path. I love it. Thank you so much for sharing your experiences,
!LADY
!PIZZA