RE: The “Anything You Want” Fvckery…
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A little girl raped by her own father and abused, verbally and physically, and mentally tortured, somehow has grown up and made it to age 55, but she has severe OCD and wants to die but won't kill herself because what if death is not the end, but ushers in new torments?
So, I buy her books and show her blogs by people such as @josie2214, and we both keep reading Motivational Quotes and inspirational memes every day on social media, but I still struggle daily (playing a mental wack-a-mole, shooting down the unceasing negative thoughts that assualt my mind), and I keep hoping (praying, to whatever entity may be listening) that she can overcome her PTSD and live, really live, not just exist...
Thank you @rok-sivante for a brave and honest post!
I keep trying to "manifest" peace, unity, joy, and blessings (especially for damaged, broken people like this friend). I pray a daily Rosary, I "pray" in nature, invoking the sun, and the plants (see Sajah Popham and Matthew Woods books on evolutionary herbalism) and...
Well, thanks again to all who weigh in on this.
May my friend "live" again before she dies!
Thank you for your comment. !HUG
Examples like these are the exact reason why I believe it is extremely important to actually dig even deeper within all this fluff and try to find the kernel of truth in it if there is any, and yes Joe Dispenza's work does make me believe that there are in fact methods that can be used to help.
It sounds to me that you are taking it upon yourself to 'fix her'. Beware of not keeping her in the victim mode in your own eyes.
Support her, love her, uplift her when you can, but do not pity her. Instead, recognize her for the amazing warrior that she is. Her intuition of death not bringing her the relief she's reaching for is correct. Hell is real and it is no more no less than a state of the soul, so if she's carrying extreme amounts of torment within her, that is more than likely to transfer over. What is important for her is to try and find her power back in whichever way she can without perpetuating the cycle of violence.
Some anger might bubble up as a consequence of purging out the trauma, but that is good, it means there is movement, just important to 're-act' that anger in a contained/safe manner.
You do not have to take the responsibility of rescuing and healing her, but how you can help her is by internally celebrating any moment you find her at ease, calm, relieved, content, joyful even. Treasure those moments even if they are few and far between.
I will do what I do/can 'from my side' to help her.
Abuse like that is a theme that can no longer be overlooked and ignored as a collective unconscious, so whatever I can do to help the collective to transmute this I'm here..
~Josie~
I sent 1.0 HUG on behalf of @josie2214.
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Thank you Josie!
I realize I'm not her rescuer, and I do try to convince her that she is not a VICTIM.
The past is past. Live in the now. Her parents are dead. New tormenters have come along, but she lives alone now, in a tiny house in a tiny town, and I do my best to show her all her successes and all the ways she brings color, beauty, kindness, compassion, etc, into the world (she's an artist and a writer and she feeds wild animals in her garden instead of killing them, as my neighbor does).
Interesting views on hell... my own concern is that we die and we're dead and that's it. NOTHING. No awareness, no memories, no anything. Millions of people cope with the loss of a loved one by believing we'll be reunited in a next life. I have no such certainty - just hope!
She sounds like a truly amazing person. ^^
I'm glad you see that - she is an amazing person - she just doesn't BELIEVE it yet!