Early youthful experience by @calebmarvel and @hafizaftab

This morning why I was reading a post by @hafizaftab, so many things start running in my mind. Of course, growing up as a youth I saw many things play around me and from my own end too.

In the excitement of youth, men find every woman, every girl good, and women find every man's love true. Even just looking at a woman is a reward to a man, and a little sympathy from a man is seen as a confession of love to a woman.

Growing up as a young, I faced few emotional issues at first due to some youthful lost that I may call it. Although I was the one that lead myself in to such things.

• How did it happened?

In my early youthful day, I wasn't a guy that delight joy in mingling with friends, but the little friend I had lead me into what am about to say...

Almost my friends, I was the only person that don't have a girlfriend although I was good in helping my friends to write later to their girlfriends 🤣 lol..

All my friends took my very important and some calls me John Don because of one love poet the read in school about John. He was a lover boy that was making love with his partner but got disturbed by the sunlight that came through his window while they were making love...

The sun rising

Busy old fool, unruly Sun,
Why dost thou thus,
Through windows, and through curtains, call on us?
Must to thy motions lovers' seasons run?
Saucy pedantic wretch, go chide
Late school-boys and sour prentices,
Go tell court-huntsmen that the king will ride,
Call country ants to harvest offices;
Love, all alike, no season knows nor clime,
Nor hours, days, months, which are the rags of time. Read more of the poem

Although I wasn't a lover boy, but I knows how to write love stories from imaginations.

So my friend told me that I can't be writing later for them to win a girl and I don't have any. So they lead me into the temptation of having a girlfriend. As time goes on, I couldn't keep her because I wasn't a flexing guy that goes out with girls for party, so that girl became tired of me a lift me heart broken 💔.. That was the first time I experienced heartbreak 💔💔😂😂..

The second face of my story in respect to what @hafizaftab said,

and a little sympathy from a man is seen as a confession of love to a woman

In my area, there was a girl that lives close to me. She was an apprentice in a catering school, one a faithful day I saw her in a sad mood 😞 although we were friends but not close friends. But as a human, in my nature I am quick to read thing or someone mind and I also love helping. So I went to meet her for find out what was really wrong with her and she opened up to me that they have practical in her catering school but she gat no money to get the items and her aunty that she was living with had no money to give her at the moment. In my nature, I felt for her and gave her the money to get those items. I did it with a free mind and expected nothing in return, at that point I noticed the excessive joy in the girls heart. She quickly stood up and gave me a hug 🤗 as a sign of appreciation. I thought that was over and I continued in my movement. But as time goes on, I noticed that the girl was trying to be close to in terms of taking me as her boyfriend 😏. Hahaha
I noticed all her movements and as time goes on, she became a close friend to me but it didn't last long when I discovered that its all a form of distractions to me.

Main lesson I learnt

• I learnt that doing good or extending a hand of fellowship to anyone don't give you the open hands of loving that person and bringing him or her so close to you..

• In every stage in a man's life, there is always a helper.

You might be a helper to that person at that point, but don't take it too deep by building feelings in that process because some persons will do well when the are your friends and not Lovers.

Thats why we need to take time in going for a life partner because is for life time...

• A big thanks to @hafizaftab for bringing me the thought of writing this life story

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