The Traits I want my flesh and bone to possess
Someone once asked me if I could let my daughter marry a person like me, and I said I would be happy if my daughter got to meet someone like me. The main reason is that I will have peace of mind knowing my daughter is with a man who cherishes his family and fulfills his responsibility no matter how hard it is for him.
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One of the happiest days of a man and woman is the day they give birth to their flesh and bones, the joy of seeing the cute little one is out of this world... Every worry disappears at that time, and the only thing that matters is the baby. Such a day is when men can shed tears of joy, not caring about what people will say, because the joy is overwhelming.
I have always desired to have a daughter as my first child, and this decision was made when I realized the difference in a boychild and a girl child... I have two nephews and 2 nieces, whenever I visit any of the two families, the way my nieces greet me is different, the moment they sight me, they run to hug me but it is not the same with the boys because of our reserved nature so I also want a girl child that I will treat like a princess. It is shocking when I see some people saying they don't want a girl child, and some even reject their babies because she is a girl. If only they knew how priceless and lovely a girl child is.
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When it comes to traits, I would love my child to inherit from me.. The first would be
Being Independent: I stopped relying on my parents for basic things of life immediately I was done with secondary school, Infact I moved away from home to start life afresh in a new city and not once did I call them to send me money, even though there are days I had nothing to eat and lot of debt to pay but it never crossed my mind to call home, Instead I was thinking of how to survive with my salary and also get more work so I can earn more to sort my bills... I would love for my child to have such a mindset and be independent at an early stage of his life, too. I want my baby girl not to be dependent on guys for money; I want her to work for her own money. A husband ready to take care of her responsibilities should be a bonus.
Empathy: This quality is another trait I would love my kids to have, the ability to be able to understand others and feel their pains, this ability also promotes kindness... being selfless to an extent, because users will come so he should also be able to discern the users from those who are truly in need of his help.
In the end, I just want him to be a good egg in society and impact many lives. I want him to be greater than me and achieve things I could not, and I would be there to support and guide him.
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I understand the feeling of having a girl child doesn't really matter if she comes first all I know is that they are always the best
yes they are🙃
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Indeed, baby girls are more adorable compared to baby boys. Maybe it's because baby girls are more interactive compared to baby boys. So, your desire to have a little baby girl is quite understandable.
The character you want in your next generation seems very simple, but both character are quite powerful.
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I also wish to have a girl as my first child
And if possible, I’d want my daughter to take every of my traits
I’m hardworking, resourceful and very brilliant and I want my daughter to be all of those
nice, hope your wishes come to pass
I see we have the same for a child girl. Honestly I've always wanted a girl child, I love their soft nature compared to those hardcore boys 😂.
Empathy is a very good trait and independence especially for a girl child. But then, I think ladies like some dependency, so she may not entirely inherit that. But then, these are great
Independence and empathy are great trait to pass on to your kids, having children of your own is a joyous thing. I hope we get there someday.
I love that part of independence. This is what our younger generation need to hear. They need to stop depending on uncles, father and so on. We need to tell them that they can survive out there on their own.
Thanks for sharing