My Opinion on Surrogacy and reasons why some people opt for it
I hear that people are now cashing out big time for volunteering to be a surrogate for couples, the amount they charge now is nothing less than 3 million upward, it also depends on the couple I guess... In fact, when I heard about it, a crazy thought came to my mind after I calculated the amount people doing it earn.
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I just had to carry the baby for 9 months, food and every other thing would be taken care of by the couples and after a safe delivery, I go home with my millions, what a good business it is! Thank God I am not a female cos I would spend more time thinking if I should do it or not lol.
In this life, I believe people can't really know what they can do or not if they don't have what it takes to do it, there was a time when I would argue with people that I would never buy a phone worth 100 thousand Naira and even criticize people that buy it, I call them a wasteful spender, There was also a time I said I would never rent an apartment that the rent is expensive and even though I was forced into doing this because of my schooling situation, I still did it anyway!.
I know a lot of people would say they would never pay someone else to carry their child but their mentality could change if they have enough money to do this and people who engage in it have their reasons.
Some women's wombs are too weak to carry a baby and being rich is a blessing to make their dream come true as they can pay someone capable of carrying it to do it for them, they will be happy and the other person would be happy too.
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A lot of women are worried about their husbands losing interest in them or not finding them attractive anymore because of how pregnancy and childbirth change their bodies and looks, my partner asked me the same question and my response was why would I judge you or find you less attractive for having our child, if anything happens to your body, we will work on it together and who have the time for that when we are both going to devote our time into taking care of the child.
So some women would prefer the surrogacy method if they have their way and the money to do it which was what some celebrities do, as for me, I do not think I need to do it but assuming my partner is finding it difficult to carry our child, it is something I can opt for, I do not see anything bad in it, it is just a way to help those with one reason or another for not being able to carry their child.
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The issue is surrogacy is a very complex issue, while most people go into it with the hope of cashing out big time, they also find out that there are more complex intricacies in it than such the money and there’s where issues begins to come out as some battle with the factual attachment to the child and some even sometimes come back to claim ownership to the child. It’s something someone should really think over before going into it and there needs to be legal agreement between both parties to avoid in seemingly incidents
You have a good perspective about that though, I don’t really know what my stand is on it for now
I think I have heard a case like this in which a woman said she wouldn't release the baby after carrying it for a couple, it is important that the surrogate should not know the couple she is carrying their child... I understand your points and it is indeed hard to avoid.
Hmmmm
That’s where legal terms comes in
Most of the surrogate mum’s get attached to the child and that’s where issues like this pops up
Eyes don open too much, all thanks to technology and I also see surrogacy as an alternative option for couples with one challenge or the other to still have their child bearing their gene and blood.
Personally, I can only opt for surrogacy for health reasons, any other reasons isn't strong enough for me no matter how rich I become.
nice one Akonam and a wise decision from you, I also don't see the need for it, your husby is a lucky man🙂
The issue is surrogacy is a very complex issue, while most people go into it with the hope of cashing out big time, they also find out that there are more complex intricacies in it than such the money and there’s where issues begins to come out as some battle with the factual attachment to the child and some even sometimes come back to claim ownership to the child. It’s something someone should really think over before going into it and there needs to be legal agreement between both parties to avoid in seemingly incidents
You have a good perspective about that though, I don’t really know what my stand is on it for now
Hmm. A husband would not leave a wife just because of change of appearance for temporary time. If a husband do so, it means he is narrow minded and same thing would happen later also.
some do and yea I see them as irresponsible and they have no conscience cos it is their baby that made her the way she is.
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Some women will continue to have miscarriages because their wombs are too weak so it’s better to go through the surrogacy method
It’s not bad but I can’t use it as a means of earning
sadly yes, some people had a lot of miscarriage already, such people could have opt for surrogacy if they had the money...
Pregnancy takes a toll on the body of women, so anything anyone gets for being a sorrugate is actually worth it. I've seen how pregnancy hits women bro, and unless the woman has good genetics, they look almost different from what they use to look like.
yea you are right, it changes the looks of some, in general, it affects all just that it can be different for the individual, respect to the ladies in that aspect