The Beauty of Walking Your Own Path in Love

Throughout my walk in life, one of the biggest lessons that I've ever learned is that you should never try to plan your life around someone else or be more focused on doing a particularity with someone else. Sometimes it can be tempting because the person close to you might be the perfect person that you want to share your dream with, but you should not fully rely on that person.

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If you're planning on achieving any dream, never put that hope only around or put that your dream around just one person because the truth is that when you're used to building your life around someone, it's like you are depending on uncertainty because people might change at any time and eventually when this doesn't work out, you end up feeling bitter and lost and hatred for such person even though it was not his or her fault.

The most fulfilling journey in your life happens when you focus more on yourself. Then you find those who share the same goals with you and align with them. Just imagine two people trying to chase their passion and living according to their own dream and aspiration. They are not trying to lean on each other although they support each other. They have their own separate values but with time they also align with like stars which guide them in the same direction even though their hunger and vision are not quite equal.

When this kind of relationship are known to drive effortless because no one is fully dependent on others, no one is building their whole life on each other although they are following the same path. But they still have their own values. They have their own goals and their own aspirations personally. It is just about working side by side, not about what you need.

Setting Boundaries in Relationships

If you are an adult and want to build a relationship, you should also know your boundaries. Don't depend too much on others so that it will not end with "I have done so much for you" or "you owe me a lot for doing this for you". You should not put yourself in that kind of position. Because this can serve as a mental burden instead of having high expectations from. It is just like two people who don't need each other to survive but they just love the confidence of others.

When you focus on these goals, you are trying to bring out the best of your knowledge and sharing your ideas without depending too much on others or expecting too much from. You are not looking for anybody to just fill that empty space in your life. You tie the responsibility of fixing your life by yourself.

Building Your Own Values

Instead of just sharing this life with someone else, instead build your own values. Be kind. Be ambitious. Take care of yourself. You are not looking for anybody to just fill that empty space in your life. You are looking for someone who will help you to finally develop yourself. Those who have the same belief with you and value with you will come effortlessly.

Here is the most important thing to take away. Live for yourself first. Love yourself first. Take care of yourself. Chase your goals. Build yourself. Nurture your passion first. And let the journey unfold. Let people come to you naturally. People who are doing the same thing. Their thoughts are good. Align with yours. Then it will be a bonus to you.

You won't have to give up your total freedom or dim your light with others. You people will shine together. You will work together hand in hand and create something beautiful and meaningful in your life.

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