RE: Forgiveness is Divine.....Loh #250.
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Hmmmm....i love this, but i have a question it might sound funny tho, i read your writeup i really love it. But my question is what if you forgive someone and they still offend you, you forgive again but they offend again. What should one do to that kind of person
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Your question is not funny at all. It makes sense.
Firstly, thank you for reading and loving my write up.
Now to answer your question...
I will still forgive and this is because I want peace of mind. I have experienced betrayals from my own blood brother who is younger than to me. In fact, this boy knows how to hurt me, because he lives with me. He will spread lies in the church about me and those things when I hear them cause me pain. At first, I will be angry and we will not be on talking terms even though we stay in the same house but God helped me by showing me forgiveness is the only way to put him to shame.
I began praying to God for the grace to forgive easily and later he by himself left my place and went to live with another church member.
Today, those whom he lied to have come back to apologise because he is doing worse to the church member he is staying with presently.
But as for me, my heat is free and I no longer hold a grudge against him. This is forgiveness. As it stands, I cannot allow him to come under my roof anymore. No matter how much he begs me and this I have shown to him decisively. It is for my own good.
My God, sorry about that... You really tried forgiving him with what he did to you, you must have a nice heart and you also have a heart of forgiving.
I love that
My dear ...I am not nice. I had to learn to be nice because God expects it.
And that's good because you did it for God
Keep it up
Thank you
Thirdly, the Bible states that we should forgive 77 times 7 times a day. That is 490 times in a day. God does not expect is to keep counting the wrongs done to use but He also wants us to be wise as a serpent.
When a person is deliberately causing offense to you, that person is not making a mistake rather he is committing a crime against your conscience and your soul. Such person needs to be kept far a way or at arm's length of he or she refused to change.
This is my principle and it works for me.
Even the Bible says that If your eye will cause you to err, pluck it off. Instead of my loved one to keep offending me and leading me to the path of unforgiveness and bitterness, I will not hesitate to cut off that relationship for my sanity, peace and making heaven.
This Des not mean that I have given up on the person.....no. I can love them and pray for them from afar. The re is no distance in the spirit realm.
This is the truth that I live by and so far it is working for me.
Thank you for this question. I hope you find my answer useful