LOH#173~I CONSIDER THE DECISION OF BEING SPONTANEOUS ABOUT LOVE

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Hi @ladiesofhive.
This week's prompt is really interesting, all thanks to the Crew for this amazing prompts

I'm spontaneous when I'm in love

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To me love means a whole lot, love is patience, love is kindness, love is tolerance, love is understanding, love is sacrifice, love is forgiveness
Love is commitment.
Love is trust,
Love is not just a feeling, it's an action.

True love is uncontrollably, your share your secret, strength, fears, flaws and weaknesses.

When it comes to love, different people approach it in different ways, personally, at first I'm always very careful till I'm comfortable with the person. But once there is foundation of trust and stability.
After studying you, observing your likes and dislikes, I will try to adjust if I can. Then start being spontaneous, I will have to annoy you and apologize later.

I'm always spontaneous and open to take the risk.

There's nothing to be careful about when I'm in love, apart from being careful not to hurt the other person.

Love is beyond the physical, if you give me a reason. Then I don't have to be afraid. I have to be spontaneous, I just have to let it flow.

I am not afraid of rejection, I embrace the confidence of approaching my partner, talking about things, people and places.
I share what I feel about a particular thing, and how it should be done.

Communication is very important when it comes to love
Because that's how to express how you feel verbally or non verbally.

To me, I feel being spontaneous is the secret flames that keeps the relationship burning.
It can also reignite the relationship.

I engage in spontaneity to break monotony. Because I feel I shouldn't have a partner and still be lonely. I engage my partner in activities that interest me, and I also engage in what interest him, to make the relationship fun and stress free.

When I'm in love, we have to try something new together.

I express my affection to my partner, and how I feel about him in a moment.
I show happiness for everyone sacrifice and act as if I wouldn't have them without you, I keep surprising my partner with the little I have.

We have to talk about goals, career and finance
I have to be open and friendly
It makes me feel relieved, knowing that I have play my own part.

I tried to be flexible and adaptable;(understanding girlfriend)

In as much as I like being spontaneous, I also try to strike a balance, because too much of everything is bad, what interest me might not really interest my partner. If he can't key in, I do not have to force him to avoid problem, or disrespecting his choice.
I have to listen to my partner's body language, his reaction to all this things. Because he may find it boring.

I CARE ABOUT THE FUTURE

I care so much about the long-term ( future) implications of my actions. That's is the main reason I have to be very open from the start.

REASONS

Because I will not like to get married to someone who keeps too much secret and lives a monotony life.

I will not like to get married to someone who is self centered and do not consider my happiness.

I have to let my partner know we can always adjust to fit each other.

My partner has to understand that we have choices, right and where someone cannot adjust, there should be no force.

We have to respect each other's career, goals and aspirations .

To make sure we have secure a financial security.

And to make sure that I or my partner is not being inconsiderate or selfish to each others need .

The world is big enough, we need to allow each other to explore.

I have to try new things to discover the toxic traits; deal with it or move on if I won't be able to cope with it in the future.

I will not like to end up with a partner who go a day or two without hearing from me.

To experience some sense of compatibility, or trying to fit in before marriage.

Thanks for stopping by, hope you find this interesting
@blessed-20