What Shapes Us: Upbringing, Surroundings, or Self?

It is said that we become like the company we keep, but it has been seen many times that there are people who live among such people but still they turn out to be completely different like you can see the lotus flower, it is in the mud yet it is so beautiful and looks very attractive. The same happens for all people, many people say that the effect of a company is very effective, if the people around you smoke cigarettes or do anything or have a good habit like they are good in studies, then there is a very high possibility that you will also become like them after some time. What kind of a person will be, all this is not decided from childhood, many things matter due to which determine the nature of a person, whether it is good or bad, it is decided at the time. Many children get all kinds of comforts and facilities from their childhood, so they are not in the habit of doing any kind of hard work but some people get to live a hard life from their childhood due to which they have become very hardworking and they do not feel any shame in doing any kind of work and they do not feel any kind of sorrow and remain happy that they have got some kind of work.

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Your children become like the kind of sanskar (culture) you give them. If you live well in your house and behave well with others, then your children will do the same. If, on the contrary, you do not respect your elders, and then you think that your children will respect you, then this cannot happen. Children also learn from the people around them, and their catching power is very high. You must have often noticed how small children copy our habits, like using a mobile phone, or if we inculcate a good habit in front of them, then perhaps it inspires them to do good things, or they get interested in doing good things.

See, in society, many standards have been made based on which it is decided whether you are good or bad. If you do not drink alcohol in India and do not roam around unnecessarily, then you are a good person, and if you are a girl and you do not roam around much and your conduct is good, then you are a good girl. See, all these things can be different. Some people keep their lives very private, and no one knows anything about them. People want to know about them and are curious to know about them, but see, some people are such that they do not want to share their personal life with anyone. But there are some people who make every moment of their life public, and in such a case, they have to suffer its bad consequences after some time.

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If you have spent your life in this world, then you will have only one goal that you have to get out of this thing and for that, you are ready to do anything. In such a situation, you meet a lot of people, and as you meet different types of people, you keep on becoming like that, and this becomes your nature. See, no one is good or bad, everyone's circumstances bring him to the point where he is now, if a person has got good education since childhood and has had a good upbringing, then perhaps he will become a person of good character, but it is difficult to say this nowadays because nowadays educated people are also doing some kind of activities and the whole internet is full of such people. Everyone learns from the people around them. See, nowadays small children are watching shorts, making reels, why are they doing this, because they are seeing that the generation older than them or whoever, other people are also doing the same, so they are also following the same trend.

It is my personal opinion that the circumstances and situation of a person force him to become the type of person he is. Some people control themselves in any type of situation and emerge as good people. Some people share everything with everyone and some people who keep their things private and in such a case, there is definitely a little bit of university towards them among the people and this should happen as well, if people know everything about you then it can prove to be harmful for you and in the end I would just like to say that the upbringing of the people and the type of people around them determines what kind of personality you will have and what kind of qualities you develop in them.

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