Strong but Silent: The Unseen Struggles of Being a Man

Well, there are many things that everybody keeps talking about each other, but there are some very popular things. See, the society or the country you live in has a different perception based on it. Like, now, the trend here is that the Bollywood movies is coming to an end, and Tollywood and other South Indian movie industries are growing a lot because they focus more on their culture, and many other reasons are being given. And there are many such things, like I live in the mountains, and the people of the city or the people of the big city say that I must be used to the cold because you are from the mountains, but this is not necessary. See, some stereotypes are right and some are wrong. Until you do not confirm things, you cannot talk about which thing is right or wrong. See, all these things have been going on for a long time, and people keep believing in them.

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As there is a very popular saying and it is prevalent everywhere that men do not feel pain, and men never cry. If you see a man crying, you say that we should be quiet don't cry like a women. Women are said to be very soft-hearted, innocent and very kind. See, every society has different trends and different customs. Among humans, a man is shown as a strong and very powerful person, but not everyone doesn't needs to be of the same type. Yes, in the old times, mostly men used to go to wars, so they needed to be strong, but nowadays, there is no war, so there is no need for it. There is an army to fight, and earlier, women used to do household chores and manage other things. Men used to go hunting or to wars, for which they needed to be strong.

And if he wanted to influence others, then he needed to be powerful too. If he starts crying in front of his juniors or his soldiers or starts showing himself in front of them, then probably no one will follow him, and I think this notion has been there for a long time. I think this is also because a man is considered to be very tolerant; he does not break down so easily. If you see, a woman is very emotional and she breaks down easily, but this condition does not apply everywhere. Some women are also very sensible and they send things for a long time, but everyone has a limit. See, a man has already been shown as being very strong and hard hearted, he doesn't have any kind of feelings, but this is not true, see, this is not the case, because of which man has become helpless and he cannot share his feelings with anyone, people who drink, they bring out their feelings after drinking, I sit with some of my friends, I don't drink, I just go to give them company, then there comes a moment when they drink too much, then they start crying and share all their sorrows and pain, everyone wants to tell someone about what is in their heart, but not everyone is such that they can keep their secrets a secret.

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We all should be very careful and pay attention that we should not share so many personal things with anyone that we may face problems later, that is why a man remains strict and shares his things with minimum people because maybe he wants to protect himself and he says that look, a man is his own biggest enemy, it is we who tell our things to others, sometimes it happens that we get carried away by emotions and tell a lot of things to others which we should not tell, some people tell a lot of lies to study but sometimes these lies become a problem for them. See, many times such a time comes in our life when you feel like crying but due to all these things, you are not able to cry and if you cry then people say that look how he is crying like a girl and they start saying a lot of things but gradually things are changing in the society, we are expressing our feelings which is a good thing but people are becoming very shameless also, see, we must put some limits on this thing because look, yes you have the right to be completely free but you do not have any right to make anyone else uncomfortable.

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