“Not Everyone Is the Same: Why Listening Matters More Than Speaking
See, every person is different. Some people are very tolerant. What I mean by saying tolerant is that some people tolerate a lot of things and they don't even notice much difference with many things. But there are some people around us who get angry very quickly and get upset very quickly. But there are some people around us who don't even notice any difference with all these things. There are many types of people around us. There are some people who even if you tell them a lot of things, it doesn't make much difference. In a way, they are the same. They listen, if it is their mistake then it is not the other person's mistake, then they stand against the same mistake but listen to it and try to improve it and some people do not accept it even if it is their mistake because, they just keep on proving that thing.
If you are a good listener, you can achieve a lot in life because many people in a hurry do not pay attention to many things and due to which they face a lot of trouble. If you are a good listener, first you listen to the talk and only after that you reply to your talk, then in such a situation people praise you many times and many times it happens that a person calls you because he does not want to talk to you, they just wants to share with you what is on their mind and wants to be heard due to which they call someone which they can trust and they also feel good. I do this many times with many friends who are in bad situation, they call me and tell me and I listen to them and If I feel they are saying wrong I correct them.
Some people have even told me that you a good listener and maybe whatever it feels like is because I listen to what people say, I observe things, even though I don't say much to people because I am a bit of an introvert person and I have a little problem in hanging out with everyone, but with the people with whom I am open, I share a lot of things with them and I also listen to what they say, see, whenever someone is saying something to you, you should first listen to what he says rather than interrupting him if you do that Then maybe that person will think that you are not interested in listening to him, first you listen to him completely and only after that you can make any comment or criticism.
Many times, a major reason for conflicts between people is that they don't listen to what others have to say. If they hear bad things about each other, it might happen. Sometimes the issue gets resolved, and their dispute ends. Sometimes they even have to go to court, where they learn the truth. When they find out what the other person is trying to say, and we weren't listening very closely, if we had listened, it might not have become such a big deal. Sometimes, someone gets angry and does something, and if you If you get angry and reply to him immediately or take some action, then the matter becomes complicated. If a person is angry with something in his family, then you should listen to some things quietly because anger is not permanent, it is temporary and after some time it calms down.
Perhaps this must have happened to you sometime, when someone in your family gets very angry, then if no one talks to him for some time, the matter cools down a bit and that person himself starts feeling sorry and also asks for forgiveness, yes some people are very stubborn, they do not care about what other people think about them, whether they should say sorry, their point of view is different, but most of the people are such that they realize whatever is their matter and also say sorry to the people. Yes. Listening carefully to anything is a very good skill. If you can do this, you are very lucky and a great person, in my opinion.
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As you say listening is a good skill . I want to keep some of my thoughts on it. I think if someone is a good listener then he should have patience and a calm mindset. And with that i think thordi smjhdari bhi jaruri h if someone is sharing something with you then he should keep that b/w them and he should not share that with someone else.
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Listening is also a art, you are right it's good chance that a good listener understand the things move accurately.
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indeed sir, 😄. thanks for stopping by.
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Most of the issues arrive because we can't understand each others. We all try our best to make our point clear but not ready to understand the point of view of others and we don't want to hear their thoughts and the issues remain unsolved. That's the reason we need to be a good listener and it can make life easier and simple for us.
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