WHAT MARRIAGE STANDARDS SHOULD BE IN THIS MORDEN AGE.

Marriage as a word is a legally and socially approved union between a man and a woman it is regulated by belief custom rules laws that portrays the rights and duties of partners and extends to their offspring.

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For every potential young man and woman out there marriage is something they look up to.Its safe to say that marriage doesn't just start from the blues. Friendship, relationship/ dating and courtship all comes first before the final stage with is marriage.
And so many young men and women during their relationship/dating period will always look out for certain things in their partner.Men are usually be attracted by what they see ,and they tend to go for ladies with huge assets looking all shapely. And the ladies in return are attracted to the money , the luxury life style, the physical looks.And some believe that this are the right standards for marriage, what a pity.
Where does character, good attributes, discipline, tolerance and patience go to while setting relationship standards.Most times in they are never in the picture till it's too late most times by the time marriage is already done.And when this happens divorce comes into the picture and tears the family apart. The children are not left out because the mental stress of a failed marriage backed up by poorly made marriage standards affects them in the society.
In the quest of looking for for physical beauty, romance and money ,let us consider character, good attributes, discipline, tolerance and patience as key factors to be put into consideration.
If I am to set marriage they will definitely come in this order.
-Family background.

• Good character.
• Godly attributes.
• Discipline.
• Tolerance.
• Patience .
• Love.
• Finance.
• Physical beauty and appearance.
  All men want a woman who is a confidant ,who can take care of the home,train the kids take care of them as well as take care of her husband. Just as every woman wants a man who would be father , a brother,a best friend .
  Let's be realistic no body want's to be man who is not available to be there for his wife and children.Or a woman who is never available to take care of her home and tend to her husband and kids .
  Personally I advise to marry for character and beauty, get me right let character be a topper by on your list and beauty comes later because the children have to look beautiful.

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WOULD YOU SUBMIT TO YOUR PARTNER.
Submission is the respect the wife or husband show each other in relationship or marriage. As a woman I'm willing to submit to my husband and respect him. Even the bible says that a woman should submit to her husband.
But mind you, respect and submission are reciprocated, For you to be submitted to you must put your self in the position to receive that and then submission and respect comes freely.
Let's not forget to set right marriage standards in the future.

Thank you