SMILING THROUGH LIFE LIKE IT'S PERFECT

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From time I became of age and had knowledge of good and bad in life I have always looked forward to perfect world where everything will be perfect no more pain ,no more suffering ,no more sickness and no more death.

This is my entry for hive learners weekly contest edition one. A lot of people these days are just out for enjoyment nobody wants to leave that life when success and growth is always tied to suffering must you suffer to get everything.

Some people even see those who do not want to suffer as lazy and irresponsible people yes I did not grow up with is silver spoon neither was I born with a golden spoon in my mouth my family was not poor neither are we wealthy or rich we are just middle class and it was okay for me because to always be content with what you have .

As kids in my house we always had this story from my parents, my father struggled to send himself to school and after that he sponsored my mom through school and at the end of the day two hearts that loved each other we are meant to be stayed together and they birthed us.

My siblings and I two girls and two boys although I'm the last baby of the house I had an elder sister and two brothers although my elder sister is late now . Lately Life hasn't always been rosy for any of us my parents tried their best to give us the best education they could give us and prepare us academically, emotionally, mentally and streetwise for whatever life would throw at us in the future.

And yet sometimes no matter how hard you try to plan life and brass up yourself for future life struggles that you know will definitely come, when it comes it hits you down so bad that most of the time you find it hard to get a hold of yourself and still stand strong because life struggles comes with what we least expect, and it comes with something we have never seen before and it takes a lot of strength and courage to stand up to everything and still come out smiling.

What if we had a perfect world with no death, no disease, no suffering ,no crisis and no war, maybe my father would have been alive now if there was no death maybe my sister wouldn't have been dead if there was nothing like diseases, cancer and so many more. Life threatening diseases that when you have it you know that they are 50/50 chances of you surviving.

Maybe everything would have just gone exactly the way we wanted it to go and life would have been better and more straightforward for all of us. But I still stand on my opinion I'm not one to say that you must suffer or you must go through a very severe type of suffering for you to achieve what you want to achieve in life , yes hard work is requires dedication is required but what if at the end of this suffering you die before you get that thing you are suffering for.

I would always tell people around me life is not too hard but sometimes we make it too hard for us , yes we have to suffer especially in my country Nigeria we have to suffer on daily basis and yes we also have to be happy we also have to leave our life freely in as much as we know that there is nothing we can do about diseases and death. But what more can we do than try to do our best to live our the best way possible life because nobody knows what's going to happen in the next hour.

This is one thing I would always tell my kids I do not want you to suffer the way I suffered whatever I am doing now is to make life easier and more beautiful for you and in all your endeavors to be successful you would definitely go through a hard time time always make yourself happy and leave your life like there is no tomorrow but responsibly .

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