GOOD PARENTING (FATHERHOOD)
Parenthood in my family it has been one of the best that I have experienced I had a loving dad and loving mom although heis late he played his role well before he passed.
Parenthood in my city or my country that I don't really know but a better part of it is good and a better part of it is bad . Not all parents are perfect parents ,or are good at parenting.
Yes fathers are giving the same importance as mothers are although most times the daughters are mostly drawn to their fathers and the sons are mostly drawn to their mothers even with this controversy both father and mother are giving the same importance ,using my family as an example we never valued one person more than the other because the both of them in it each other to be able to uphold the family.
Yes it is true that daughters are more attached to their fathers than the sons are like I explained earlier I don't know the logic behind it but I have a experience that I am the second daughter of my family and my father was my best friend he was my go to person to talk about anything and any thing at any point in time.
While sons are more attracted to their mothers we still don't know the reason behind the base but I believe that most of us would agree to this notion daughters are more attracted to their fathers and sons are more attracted to their mothers.
Special memories with my dad ,my dad had stroke when I was 10 yes old. I looked after him the much I could as a child to like came of age got into the university I would always come back home because I wanted to be with my dad to spend time with him to talk to him to tell him about school to tell you how I need money for school. Meanwhile my elder sister who is late at the moment I'm writing this took good care of our dad she loved him much more in as much as she was attracted to my mom too but I'm in focus was on my dad. Two the second stroke happened and he was fully paralyzed and he died.
Best moments with my dad was on my birthday I went to school then and my mom told me there was not going to be any celebration for by the time I got back and I don't have already given more money to make a very big pot of jollof rice and chicken. He got me in watch ,a shoe and small phone. That's literally made my smile all through the year.
I miss dad alot I miss the times I took care of him during his last days and he will always live on in my heart.
Unfortunately I never saw my grandfather I only saw pictures of him and from the stories my dad and siblings be told me he was a great man. I can only wish I had time to bond with him and share my experience with you all.But dad made up for all the lost time.
Fathers are prominent figures in the society and should be accorded with much respect same goes to mothers too, they are the rocks that hold up the family as a unit.
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Fathers can wholeheartedly sacrifice for their family, fathers are selfless.
I pray God blesses every father out there .
This was such a touching and beautiful reflection. Your love for your father really shines through and it's moving to read how deeply you cherished your bond with him. The story about your birthday surprise almost brough a tear to my eye -it's often those simple, thoughtful moments that stay with us forever
I also like your balanced view on parenthood. It's true that both mothers and fathers play crucial roles and when they work together in unity, the whole family benefits. Your experience is a strong reminder of the impact a loving parent can have on a child's life -even long after they're gone
Thanks for sharing. Your words are a beautiful tribute to your dad and to all caring fathers out there
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Many feminist will say they don't need men, but the truth is the world will lose it shape and void without men.
Men are very important and the world would not be complete without them.
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The role of a father is very important in any family. A woman once said even if her husband will remain crippled and handicapped is better for her than loosing him to the hands of death. Fathers go through a lot hence need to be appreciated. Thanks for sharing