RE: Hive-Naija Weekend Engagement #70- “LOVE VS FINANCIAL SECURITY
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Now make I chook my mouth for the matter properly properly becos dis matter is very important.
Will I marry a guy for love who is not financially stable?
My response is hallelujah praise the one who set me free 😂😂
If I hear say I marry that kind way self🙄.
The fact is marriage does not depend only on love as love is fleeting. When bills begin to surface in the marriage, love no go stay o.
There are many factors to consider before a marriage can be successfully contracted. One major factor is fiance. The guy does not have to so rich but as long as he has a stable income or sources if income, then we are good to go.
The Bible says that he that finds a wife finds a good thing. This tells me that I am a good thing and there is no way that I'll be with a guy and he would be financially miserable (except Dem dey follow am from village).
But if that guy is sound and hard-working, then I guarantee that he won't struggle financially as we would both seek out more sources of income and how to have a better life.
No woman wants to suffer and I am not going to pretend to be a good wife material and say that I'll marry such a guy. I have dated one like that in the past and trust me, it was not palatable at all. I had to call it quits.
This is my humble response.
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Gbam! The elders are proud and happy with your response, Jesus has set me free so why should I suffer all in the name of love
I tire.
If I do that kind thing ehn, I'm sure that my ancestors will arise with koboko for me 😁😁
You wey know 😂
Yeah 😁😁
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Make I screenshot this thing first.
Well said ma
Abeg go ahead make all the guys see am no cheap babe for market 😂😂
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No be lie oo
Na so
Your own came from an experience, e choke! 😂
For real, he doesn't have to be very rich but the potential should be there. No be everything person go dey struggle for all the time to live better.
Abi o my sister.
Imagine struggling as a single lady then still struggling as a married woman. No o, abeg I jump and pass.
The guy should have something doing that gives him a stable income that we can work with and I'll add my own to it too.
Life no hard, na people dey marry wrong to make things hard 🥹
Na so. .
By the time pikin begin enter the picture na, both the couple and the innocent pikin go dey suffer. That kind thing dey break my heart abeg
Seriously o, it should break everyone's heart and we would do the needful from beginning 🥹
True talk right there. We should start now to propagate the gospel of common sense.
Ladies need to k ow that beyond the prayers, fasting and emotionally mumbo jumbo of seeking a husband, there's work to be done.
A one sided street is never truly clean. It takes two to tango, no be only for bed 😂
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Very funny but it's the truth, many should know this.
Yeah they should 👍
Yeah they should 👍
Yes oo women are supposed to be pampered my sister
No be small pampering o. Is that not why we were brought out from his ribs? 😂😂
Sisterhood is proud of you. A man who intends to marry should at least, have a stable source of income. No be to go carry person daughter come dey suffer am. Ọ gah o. 😂
No be small o gah o.
Rubbish and ingredients come join spicy ginger on top, mtchewww.
Shame self no dey catch some guys at all. Them go just carry their two left leg come dey disturb person daughter with zero account balance. Oag clear road
Double wahala for dead body. 🤣
Abi ooo
This place is association of ladies marital affairs and commission affiliates. Make I just hold my toothpick and pass by jejely.
Who give you permission to pass by?
Oya talk your own now o. You never can tell, a girl might leave you for this same reason. So you better learn, no pass by oo
She don leave me already. So wetin I gain? Abeg let me pass by jejely.
Eewoo, chai 😂😂
She no even care to see me. She don see am for her dreams 😂
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This is me laughing in Germany
This is me too laughing in revenge mode 😂 😆
For where?
Who dey fear your revenge😜😜😜
Totally agree with you... like your mind is made up never to repeat past mistakes 😆
Yes ooo, my mind is very made up 😁😁
I like that ...cause affliction shall not arise the second time 😁
Ameen 😂😂
This thing goes both ways, both the man and the lady should have something doing. I mean, marriage isn't children's play, love sweet, love blind but na bills dey open that eye.
No matter how two individuals love themselves, if bills are not constantly met, Omo, problem go dey o.
I won't advise anyone to marriage someone who isn't financially stable in the name of love.. Omo, una go see shege promax🤣 but both of u should be stable, nothing like man or woman here.
Abeg Bros chop knuckles 🤜🤜🤜
You be better man 😂😂
This kind sense coming from a man is wonderful. And you are very correct. The mam and womam must have stable source of income.
Are you married? Your wife go dey enjoy you because you know whats up 😂😂😂