Being Irresistible|| A book review for those searching for lasting love.

Has a book ever gotten your attention simply by its title?

If yes, then we are in the same boat as I do love a book with a catchy title. That's one thing that caught my attention with this book.

Many times, we hear stories about women who are undervalued or who lack self worth and most times this stems from the mindset and general perception of those women themselves.

You cannot cast your pearls to swines and expect them to value it

One thing that helped shaped my value system as a woman was reading good healthy books that focused on enlightening, appreciating and crowning womanhood.

That's why I was drawn to this book at first glance. I knew I had to have it on my collection, no doubt about that. The bok titled ** Secrets of an irresistible woman** was authored by Michelle McKinney Hammond.

She is a woman empowerment speaker, who is also focused on improving love driven relationships. Her books are always inspiring to read an I'm glad I got one.

My thoughts and Review

Secrets of an irresistible woman is all about helping women especially those seeking for genuine love, find it.

It reveals some core reasons why many love relationships fail and why some never get the commitment they crave in their relationships.

*When you as a woman put yourself on sale, lowering your self-worth and standards, settling for less rather than for the best, then of course their relationships would hit the rocks.

This book contains about fourteen principles that would equip and guide women seeking real love and quality relationships into finding one and making it last.

Princples are universal. No matter the place or time dispensation, two multiplied by two has always given its result to be four. It is a principle. When principles are broken, disaster sets in.

I love how the author opens up on deep relatable and touching factors that lead to most relationships never getting past the first three months after the first date.

My heart ached whenever I read about women who are in toxic relationships. I lived with a couple once who were toxic to each other. The husband would Bea up his wife at the slightest provocation and one day, I summoned courage to ask her why she accepts all the toxicity and she replied with, “she has no where else to go”.

I think I should lash at my cultural setting that has made women feel like their marital home is their forever home, even when that home is worse than a maximum prison.

Early this year, I watched a short video on #Youtube about a wedding. The father and the bride were both walking down the aisle and I was there blushing proudly (I love weddings)😁. But when the father got to the alter and handed his daughter to the groom, he said something that I still applaud till date. Her is what he said ..

”I give you my daughter, please take good care of her and if one day you feel like you don't love her anymore,then please return her to me for I will always love her. Please don't maltreat or abuse her”.

Did you feel the love from that statement?

I feel this is how women are meant to be treated. We are precious beings. We make the world a happy and beautiful place. We are created with more content hence the term help-meet.

I am all in support for women empowerment but most of all, I am also in full support for women awakening especially from toxic relationships.

This book exposes what real love really looks like and anything short of that is not real. It also teaches women how to be heart-smart when it comes to love because as women, we are emotionally vulnerable unlike our opposite gender.

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I thoroughly enjoyed reading this book and I'm sure that it helped me with a shift in my paradigm and about how I see myself.

I would gladly recommend this book to all the single ladies out there who are seeking for real love. Like Moth to a bright light, the right guy will come when you apply theroggt principles.

This book is a blessing and so it is getting an 8/10 from me. Everyone deserves real love💗

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Thank you all for reading.

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