Dating the game of luck try and see

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I am just wondering how to meet my right partner untill when I met a lady that I couldn't resist thinking about her on a daily basis with a great imagination in my mind on how special I will take care of her in the stage of dating till settlement but before I should expantiate or proceed the more let me stop here and say that:
This post is a submission to theParitae blogging competition Dating Chronicles

In my life I never think of dating because I was told by my parent that dating is a game of luck if Am not not lucky I play the game and some one wins. So there is this girl that I want to date but am afraid of what my parent told me to the extent the said if I just hold a lady on her she might be pregnant that am even afraid to talk to ladies just because am afraid of dating.

My Dating Experience
This girl I have in mind her name is Comfort she is my classmate I try my best to have a words with her but I couldn't due to my parent advice and I lack toasting words I even lack what to do so I made my friend to help me to talk to her at that time we are in Senior Secondary School (SSS3) I try my best to do but my heart is not strong to approach her even by the road side.

I dreamed about her and imagining that am with her always so as the Lord will do his work as am going home alone and she too was going home alone we are walking to same direction but we did not talk to each other because I did not mingle with girls in my class the words that came out of my mouth mistakenly was hello and she answered hey that is the first day I talk to a girl emotionally like that because I love watching love season movies the next thing I said was can I have your number? And the girl said yes sure you can have it and she gave it to me and I did not say any thing again am just praying in my heart.

As I reach home I call her around 8pm she pick and said who is on the line and I answered and said is me I mentioned my name and she said ohhh sorry I did not recognise your voice and I said no problem then she ask me how can I help you I don't know what to say I just end the call am just happy because I spoke with her then I still call back again then she said why did I end the call I reply and said nothing the next thing I said is I am dreaming about you every night I feel like to be with you till eternity and she ask me how I said I just love your smile anytime I see you in the class as I was talking she ended the call if I call she is not picking again I try but she did not pick so when I came to school the next day am not comfortable am thinking she will report me I have not been my self so.

Unfortunately she gave me a letter so I began to pray for the letter to be a good letter I did not read the letter in school my friend said I should open the later I refuse to do it when I went inside my room I start praying in my heart again so when I open the letter, she said am sorry Am not ready for anything call dating or relationship now because she is not ready to settle down I try my possible best to convince her but she refuse and I keep persisting then she finally agreed to date me after our graduation in secondary school then one day we were walking and she mistakenly hold my hands I began to cry and went home and told my parent that am finish I am walking with comfort and she hold me on her hand because I remember what my parent said, it was at that point that my father narrated the story for me very well that dating is a good experience to marriage but when not in the right way it causes problem and he say holding a lady on her hand is not bad but if you have a different intention then it is bad.
That is what made me strong to date and to stick to single dating
Thank you for reading I love you all