Taking my stuffs? Ask first

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Talk of pet peeves, well there are alot of things that people do that really get to me. Some of them I get to over look but for some reason, this particular pet peeves actually gets to me alot.

I love my space and I love people giving me that respect at least no matter how close we are. I don’t go into peoples space and take what belongs to them without asking and that’s how I expect those around me or closest to me to act.

Please don’t take my stuffs without asking. I don’t have an issue with giving it out but I have an issue with taking it without asking. I think it’s loutish and a sign of disdain or probably no recognition. I feel it gives that vibe that you can do anything around me and get away with it and it’s not good.

Before you take my stuffs ask me first. Tell me first. I would always say yes but I want to know that you want to make use of what’s mine. Otherwise I get pissed and feel my privacy is being encroached on.

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The next is close to it. When you use my stuffs or take what belong to me, put it back where it belongs. I hate it when things are not orderly . When you take out the tooth paste, put it back in the holder. When you take out the milk or whatever you move from it place, after using it, put it right back where it belongs.

Imagine if all of us keeps taking out things and not putting them where they belong, everywhere is going to be messy and littered. I can do the cleanings and keep in check things, all I need you to do is ensure not to litter.

Talk of loud music. Oh my goodness! I so much detest this that I don’t even play my music out of my phone. I am always on my EarPod because I don’t want to be a nuisance to the other person.
The next person may not be into my type of music or would prefer a moment of peace. Why would I use my enjoyment to disturb someone else?

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One day one of my neighbors was playing the music so loudly that it could be heard from one end of the building to the other. That’s nuisance. I was so pissed off. I didn’t get to confront her because I was angry and at that state, I wouldn’t want to say something I may regret. I’ve learnt not to talk when am angry.

I simply walked out of there and the expression on my face must have told her a lot cos since then she has not repeated their ugly action again. I feel we should all know what pisses the other person off and we could take responsibility for one another.

If we are able to make compromises about our relationship with others, so many pet peeves won’t be coming up. A lot of people find it difficult to make adjustments. They just want to do their own things and from careful studies, some of these pet peeves though they may seem petty has caused a lot of issues in relationships which have even escalated to something bigger.

Pet peeves can be overlooked though if you have the strength to cos constant talking about them results to nagging. If your partner do not want to learn and adjust, then love would have to cover to avoid nagging and challenges in relationships.