Unfair treatment in School Life
I remember that when I was in school I faced a critical situation. I barely had any friends only one sided they would not include me in any topic or conversation. Anyways, there was three girls and two guys who used to talk with me. Well, I was new to that school and after few months there was a guy classmate who used to do inappropriate signs and talk about inappropriate things in the class. He lived in the hostel of the school.
He was very touchy and no other girl ever cared about him being touchy as they were very comfortable because they are studying there together for 7 years. But this was something which I have never liked. One day while getting up from my sit to give my homework to the teacher that guy came near me at the same time he tried to get very close to me while I was moving to get to the teacher. I was feeling very uncomfortable. On break time he came and started to stand in-front of my bench.
Then on another day he was asking me something inappropriate which I could not understand at all because I was too naive but everyone else knew the meaning of that word. I can’t clearly remember the word. No one said anything to him when he was asking no one stopped him but they laughed it away. Then another day he was again he was moving his mouth and uttering words without sound I could understand he was saying about my chest. It was very embarrassing I don’t know how did I tolerate this.
I also saw him that he was making bad comments about a female class teacher. She could never have children so she used to see us as her children. She used to adore everyone and treat us like her own child. But one teacher bends to see the homework of someone and that guy from behind started to make other boy students to check out her back side and pointing fingers to see and had pervert smile on his face. I tried to tell the teacher but then I thought she will cry and will not be able to take it that whom she calls her son he is doing this type of things.
Later on I came home and told my mom about that guy. Because I could no longer tolerate him. My mom asked me that if he does it one last time then we would take steps but she told me not to tell my dad because if he gets mad then it will be worst for that guy. Another day that guy was using inappropriate hand signs amd saying I love you and I got very mad. My mom came during break time and I was discussing with my mom. Then of the three girls came to me and said she will also complain and join us because the boys also said inappropriate things to her.
I was glad that one girl was supporting then we want together to report to the principle. Then we explained what happened then the principle called the boys. They did not agree about what they have said and the principle was beating up all the boys expect the one I have complained about. Principle said that he has called the elder brother of that guy and we have to wait for him to arrive. But when he arrived nothing happened and the elder brother was still supporting his younger brothers deed.
Then the principal did not punish the guy I have complained about instead he asked him never to talk with me again. The principle did not even ask that guy to apologise. The next day when I entered my class room no one was making eye contact with me even when I asked a guy for a copy then he ignored me. Then the girl who had joined me to complain against that guy she also started to ignore me. There was two guys who used to talk with me and one of them also ignore my call. I was very upset when this happened. During break time my mom came again and asked me what’s wrong then I told her the story.
Then at that time that girl came and said that she lives in the hostel if she does not remain silent and keep a good friendship with them then they would not let her live peacefully in the hostel. Same goes for that guy friend of mine he also lives in the hostel if he talks with me then everyone will stop talking with him too.
I found it very unfair that literally everyone stopped talking with me except one guy. I don’t know how to explain what I have gone through that time. It was very unfair that I had not done anything but that guy threaten everyone that if they talk with me then it won’t be a good thing for them. If everyone was against him then this would not happen but everyone feared him so no one spoke up. Also another girl when I asked her being a girl how can she behave like this with me then she replied that “He is always like that he does not have any bad intention he just behaves like that with me too and we are friends for many years. You should have not complained about him.” I was very frustrated that they are friends for years and I don’t even talk to him how can he try to get touchy with me and behave like this. I am not even his friend we were just classmates. However, after that I didn’t feel like to go to school everyday because every day I felt the ignorance no one would help me or talk to me.
Anyways it was the worst experience and very unfair that everyone treated me like that as if I was the one who had done something wrong. In present time that friend who had ignored me he contacted me after seeing my success but I never replied him ever again as I still have grudges about that day. Whenever I remember that time I still feel sad about it. Everything happens for a reason after that incident I got to know that who is my real and fake friend.
Actually later on I could understand why did the principle not punish that guy it’s because there are only a few who lives in the hostel and it costs a lot to pay the hostel bill and he didn’t want to lose his money as he runs a private school.
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I understand this from all perspectives actually.
Being from a school were bullying, teasing and unfairness was a normality.
The boy is just a regular naughty kid but he's clearly influential in the hostel for no one seems to want to cross him individually...
Sorry you had to go through that..
Well I can't really relate much as have always been the bully😂😂 but I don't force people to do things oh😂,. Well there is no point keeping grudges u've out grown those things