Giving up on unnecessary things in 2024
There are plenty of things in this new year that in life I would like to give up on. As like whenever I try to change peoples opinion and they feel threatened by this and only defend more aggressively anyways, it is better to listen and discuss with each other than to draw their own conclusion with more information.
Another thing that I think I need a best friend and my previous friendship have ended up hurting my feelings and I felt like I was not capable of engaging in these relationships but in reality the people I choose to pick are not giving their hundred percentage that’s why it never ended in a good way.
I think that my happiness depends on others and if they are not with me I will not be happy. Yeah, I know that people are supposed to be added to our own happiness not become responsible for it. So, I want to change this thing from my life and stop depending on someone else for my happiness.
I give advice when it's not been asked for which is sometimes awkward. I know it would never be appreciated or accepted so, it's a waste of time. Even though I think of it in a good and healthy way people don’t admire it that much. They feel like I am judging them.
I try to argue with trolls on social media because it blows my head away. To be honest I only get pulled in deeper conversations and end up being angry and frustrated. Moreover, I am not a keyboard warrior so, I feel like I am losing to them because they know lots of words which I am unable to express but they are warriors so they are used to these situations and it’s easy for them to argue. I need to stop myself from replying to these harsh comments.
Many projects that I have started and I am very clumsy for not finishing what I have started. It gets annoying for me sometimes.
Holding anger against someone, it feels much better to unburden myself from the emotional strain. I can feel that the time and energy I have wasted that could be used to make oneself happy and not upset.
I decided to give up on having expectations that people would behave in a certain way which I would prefer or like. Through this give up procedure from expectations for them will freed me from emotional damages and disappointment. That doesn’t mean that I would expect them to be rude or bad to me, it means if they are being rude then I will try my best not to get upset by it. People will behave the way they are so, it’s not right that I should expect something else from them, because they will behave the way as they want to and I can’t change it.
I don’t want to look good for someone else because I can’t please everyone but only myself so I want to dress for myself and style my hair to please myself only and I won’t to give up on thinking that what will people say about my look.
So, these are the things that I would like to give up on. I will make sure to practice it daily so, that in the future I won’t end up doing the same thing again. I would like to set a reminder for myself for my every action.
I believe that through giving up on these things will make my life shine better and I will be more alive to live happily. The absence of these things will not hurt me at all but bring joy in my life.
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This point is interesting, because I know what it's like, creating expectations for people is dangerous, because sometimes we want them to have attitudes that we would like, but unfortunately they act the way they want, so we have to stay calm. And try not to create too many expectations, just respect and do the basics.
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Yeah, expectation is like negative aura for me now. Because expectation only gives pain.
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It's okay I can understand, I am also having busy schedules and unable to read comments on time. 😅
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I often found myself in these situations, and I've suffered from different heartbreaks in life. I've often been betrayed, most especially in my secondary school days, soon I later realized that my mindset really changed to the environment such that I don't really expect much from friends. I became self-reliant instinctively.
These changes are very good, it will make you self-reliant and independent. Keep it up, I'm rooting for you 😁.
Thank you so much for sharing these thoughts and reflections. It takes a lot of courage and self-awareness to acknowledge the areas where we want to grow and make positive changes.
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I have also changed my mindset due to my environmental changes. I am complete different from 2 years old version of myself.
Nice, the practice helps, I'm happy you're able to do that.
And another thing to note of is that : Balancing is crucial in life, even though your mindset about the environment has changed and you're self reliant, it doesn't mean that you should carry all your problems or burden yourself . A problem shared is a problem half solved. I also learnt it last year.
If they help, "thank you" and If they don't, also "thank you". No pressure.
It's just a little advice, if you already know it , it's very good.
I hope you understand 🙂.
Thanks, I do share with my friends and I feel a lot better with that.
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This is very true. If you attempt pleasing everyone, you would end up throwing away your happiness. Once you are happy and pleased with yourself, you are good to go.
I have gone through all of these so I know how it feels like and that’s why I am changing myself for better.
That's good. I wish you the best of luck.
Keyboard trolls are very annoying.
I wish we could meet one on one and argue it out 😭😂😂😂
It's easy to type and insult when you aren't seeing who you're talking to 😂😂
I can understand that one person does those things because they can't face it in real life. They are only able to be rude on online.
True...
Real life, the outcome would be different 😂😂
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I am glad I got the right path, thanks!
Give up on any negativity in your life and anything that will make you unhappy and take away your peace. It doesn't worth it.
This year focus on only positivity
Dusting out all negativity to increase positivity will be a great start of the year.
Yeah
People will hurt you but you will never lose yourself because if you lose faith in yourself then you will never be able to stand up again. So you try to hold on to your faith no matter how much people hurt you...
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