Do I have a revenge plan?
If my ex left me at the altar. To be honest, I've never thought of something like this before and realizing it's something that can happen makes it more funny and scary. I've been seeing it in movies though and most of the time, the reason for that stems from the fact that one didn't really like the other and only realized it at the altar.
Come to think of it, if something like this happens to me, I'd be so so embarrassed and sad that, I wouldn't know what to do, I'd be standing at the altar, speechless.
Something like this affects the mental health of people. I would be really sad and begin to feel insecure. I would also try to wrap my mind around the fact this is happening to me.
I would probably cry for some time and try to battle the thoughts that come inside my head. I'd try to get over him and as time goes on, I might develop hate and disgust toward him. I'd get very angry and would never want to see, speak or meet with him ever again.
As time goes on, I'll start to get over him, then there comes my revenge plan.
I won't inflict any pain on him or do something to hurt him. I wouldn't troll him on social media, or try to disgrace him in public.
I'd rather use that time to build myself. He's gone now, but life didn't stop. So, the best thing I can do is move on and take care of myself. My mental, physical and spiritual health.
I'd strive to become an overall better person.
Even though it seems I have a plan, I wouldn't wish this situation on anybody, not even my worst enemy. Only the embarrassment alone is enough to end one's life.
So good to know that you will not drag him on social media or hurt but that you will rather look inwards and keep improving on yourself.Very good write up, keep it up.
Thank you sir!