Visiting My Parents
I did something big that I rarely do. It's not that I didn't want to or dislike it, but I hate every breath I took when I cry.
It's been almost 10 years since my mother passed away and my father following her a year ago. Honestly, being an orphan is not easy but ultimately the path we take is one of solitude.
We are born into this world, welcome by two people who love us cause we are their creations. But time will continue to pass and in the end, we must be separated, cause death will always be the final straw, no one is truly eternal
I visited them and celebrated this birthday with simplicity and as a reminder that every year I celebrate the years leading up to death—that's a fundamental principle of being over 30.
I took the time to buy flowers at a florist shop. Honestly, I want to bring them a homemade treat, but they wouldn't take it. I decide to buy flowers to make their home look beauty and colorful.
The best time to visit them is in the morning, cause this summer has been very hot and when you're sad, it's not so good. I hope it would rain, but unfortunately, it didn't. It's normal, but it wouldn't rain in the summer, right?
I wanted to show my parents that their children were now adults. They didn't cry anymore when they visited their graves. Maybe I'd made peace, or was I just forcing my eyes to hold back the tears?
See you the next time hive friends!
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Truly being an orphan never an easy one. I still cry when ever I remember my parents. Especially my immediate brother who left us so young even before my mother finally passed away.
Its so sad to loose loved ones 🥰. But death is something that is inevitable.
You did the right thing beautiful 😍 Sending you hugs 🤗💕.
So sorry for your loss I lost my dad and I felt so desperate I can't even imagine to lost my mum too especially because we are really very close. Sometimes I go too to the cemetery but as you going there often make me cry.