Hello Hive Learners Community! Welcome to my blog. Raising good Children is a dream for every parent. Some parents put all their efforts into educating and learning about the ups and downs of life where once they were lagging, while other parents ignore their childhood and let them be raised by the influence of society. We should never forget that kids imitate not only their adults but also take positive or negative impacts from society as well. Parenting is a nice job if it is done wisely; otherwise, it is complex for most people. I'm going to educate and share the best methods that can raise disciplinary kids in our society.

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Three mistakes that can Spoil Discipline

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As I mentioned, kids imitate their adults; hence, we should be guarded in front of our kids. Moreover, we should provide them with how we can learn from the society by society without getting too much influence. Never, ever make these mistakes in front of your kids if you have the desire to discipline kids.

1. Fight With Spouse

It leaves a bad impression on the kids when parents fight with each other in their presence. Don't exchange abusive words, and if something is wrong, then sort it privately in the absence of your kids.

2. Breaking Dawn and Dust Rules

We need to have a schedule in our house. There should be a schedule for meals, exercise, study, prayers as well as for sleeping. If you are not punctual in these things then you can't expect a punctual kid. Try to get up early and set dawn and dust rules in your family.

3. Over-Controlled Screen Time

As it is the era of modern socialism, we have more screening time than other practical activities. Over-Controlled Screen time will leave bad impression in our kids. They will provide more attention to their screen than our arguments or piece of advices we have for them.

These three things are very common in most parents. If we want to raise good kids then we need to avoid above mistakes. Moreover, the following method can help you in raising good kids.

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Balance And Harmony

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The raising good kids is a dream for the most parents. Sorry, Our current generation is outspoken, stubborn, and un-disciplinary, it is reality. At the age of 10 years, we were completely train how to respect elders and how to solve problems without affecting others lives. It is all due to imbalance and losing harmony in raising kids. We should neither be too aggressive or nor too lenient. We should solve things politely and respectfully. We should set clear boundaries for our kids and should have rules. Sometimes we need punishment but this punishment should have positive impact in the life of our kids. Moreover, we should be role model in the life our kids. We should be hero or heroin in their lives so that they can easily follow us. If our kids are in trouble we should provide them Problem solving skills and let them fight with troubles. In all these things there should be balance and harmony. Otherwise any slight overlapping can destroy or spoil the discipline in the lives of our kids.

These are some of the critical points we should take care. I'm happy my parents did their best in making me a well disciplined kid and I always try to act upon on their roadmap whenever I'm in trouble.

This post is my entry for HL Weekly Featured Content This is the Discipline. I hope, you have enjoyed my post. Thanks!

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