Memories of my grandparents SB chronicles #15


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Hello hivers. I hope everyone is doing good😁.
As I was looking at the moon I remembered my grandmother.

Growing up I never meet any of my grandfather in both sides. They passed away even before I was born. It was only my grandmother in both sides that was around. Though I never meet my grand mother in my mothers side even once.

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She lived far away from us and when my mother go and visit her she never brings me. It was only the youngest that she always bring along with her. It was only in her story that I would get to know how my grandmother back then. According to her they grew up with lack of love from her. She's a mother that don't know how to be a mother😬. She care less about them that it was only their father that show them love but he was a fierce and strict one. I remember my mother's story on how my grandfather beat her with a belt when he saw her talking to one of the boys in their neighborhood. Aside from that he's always at work and they were left in their mother's care throughout the day. When my mother was 15 she left their house and live in different area in their city to work and provide for herself. Though once in a while she still comes and visit her parents. My grandfather was not happy of what she did and it takes a long time before they patch things up.

When she met my father they move to my father's hometown after getting married. We grew up with my grandmother in my father's side. She's a petite lady with a curly hair. A strong and brave one. Though she's not showy in terms of affection and love, I believed she have loved us in her own way. I remember sleeping in her house back then when my younger brother was sick and my mother just given birth to another baby. Our father sent us in her house to spend the night along with my older sisters. She would tell us story how she defeated those bad elements that trying to harm us. Those witches that she said she's not afraid to fight if they would come after us. Even a snake she would kill by herself if they come at night and attack her chickens. We would fall asleep listening to her stories feeling safe and secure. Knowing how brave and strong she is that nothing can harm us with her by our side.
She and my mother wouldn't get along sometimes due to some misunderstanding and would result to them ignoring each other even for a year. My mother gave birth to @lhes and other sister with curly hair when they are not in good terms. My grandmother was so proud of it. Telling people that my mother disliked her resulting to her children inheriting her curly hair😂. Though my father got the same curly hair. It was also inherited by Caleb and if my grand mother was still around she would be proud of it😛.
Even now those memories would bring a smile whenever i think of her. If I could bring back times I would surely spend more times with her and make happy memories.
This is my entry for this week prompt Fond memories with your grandparents

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I never got to see either of my grandfathers from both my mother and father sides, only my grandmothers. And I must say, I truly love and cherish them and I know they feel the same way too. My grandmother from my father’s side can be strict sometimes, but trust me, she’s an easy-going and supportive person. I’ll say my siblings and I grew up more with my grandmother from my father’s side than with my mother’s mother. But honestly, I still love my maternal grandmother a lot.

I must say you love your paternal mother a lot with how you said lot about her?

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Thank you♥️. Yes she's a good person in her own way and she's the one that was always there while we are growing up😁.

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Thanks for sharing these interesting memories (and partly stories told of others) about your family!

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Thank you sis. When I look back at those memories it would just flow out like it was only yesterday. How time flies♥️🫤

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Oh yeah, Caleb really has a cute curly hair. UwU. And you get to live with your granny in your father side at least no. I read some stories in socmed about their kwenton lolo't lola, I often get jealous with coz I never meet anyone in both sides. Tapos we're living pa in a far away province. Aguyy

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Kaya nga, ok talaga na may lolo at Lola Kang nakakasama SA pglaki. Minsan may kakampi kapa Pg pinagalitan Ka🤣. Sayang Hindi mo nakasama Yung sayo😁

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😂 So funny how your mom disliked your grandma because of hair, it's something to laugh about when heard. Glad you have stories to tell.

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Hehehe, not the hair, sometimes they would argue over some things that they won't agree😬😁

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Okay. Thought it's because of hair.

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Your mom and grandmom not liking each other is a bit the same as my mother and my grandma, lol! May ganon pala talaga. At least you have good memories of her, sis :)

Kaya pala curly ang hair ni Caleb hehe, may pinagmanahan :)

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Uo sis, lagi sila Ng aaway Dati😁. Hehehe Kahit c lhes kulot din Yan pinapa rebond Lang nya para mg straight😆
Happy weekend sis♥️

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Hehe. Parang katuwa yung nag-aaway sila. Never ko nakita mom na nakipag-away sa mama nya. Iniiyak na lang nya yung sama ng loob.

Parang namention nga nya na kulot sya non. Pero ang ganda naman ng hair ni Caleb :)

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Hehehe. IBA Kasi Pg biyenan e. Lalo na gusto lagi makialam Ng Lola SA bahay Namin. Kaya umiinit ulo Ng nanay ko. 😆

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Sabagay nga naman. Ang hirap nung nakikialam sila sa buhay nang may asawa na.

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Haha our grandma was someone who would reprimand you for planting flowers.

You should plant root crops instead 😆.
And she was so pamahiin

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Oh! Siguro sa isip mas mapakinabangan yung root crop :)

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Haha, oo exact words was

Tanim ka sampaguita, tatanda Kang dalagan niyan. Maigi pa kamoteng kahoy, may makain sa tag gutom

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Oh, and you still remember her words hehe. Pero ganon ata mga old folks non. Mapamahiin sila.

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hehe Caleb has hair a bit like mine when younger. Here we say the boy's mother will never like the boy's wife and nobody likes the mother-in-law!

She's a mother that don't know how to be a mother😬

That is a bit sad. I am glad you know.

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Always wants to interfere with our daily lives. That's what my mother doesn't like 😁.

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Hehe it is funny but you know that some people love to interfere 🤣

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You know my mom and her mother didn't have a normal mother and daughter relationship. I don't have any memories of her as she passed when I was 2. From what Im told she was a very selfish now grandpa on the other hand a very generous one but rather quiet. Too bad about your one but than again maybe good you didnt meet.

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Hehehe. We also wonder why they actually behave like that after bringing children into this world and don't care about them. But maybe in her old age she realised that she asked my mother to take her with her.🫤

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Ah grandma has become my standard of a strong woman!

Either human nor unknown entities she would never back down 😆🤣.
I remember how she would hit us every holy Friday just to ensure us safe from engkanto and others.😆.

She was really strict but I remembered how she would give us bread everytime she goes to town 😆

!PIZZA

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Hehehe, maybe that hits every holy Friday works. In her own way she has shown us love even most of the time we misunderstood it😬😬

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