RE: 'The Butterfly Effect' Artwork!
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Well, the topic is pretty deep and the examples you casted have a multitude of explanation in their own realms. I don't think it is possible for me to cast my view on all the perspectives in this comment.
Yes, everything happening in this world is wired with every other thing. Our actions DO make an impact on other people and objects in a certain way. Nevertheless, what impact our actions will have is not predictable by the actions alone. The traits of the recipient of that action have a great influences on what it makes out of that intake. For instance, the water is same for all but the seed decides if the plant will turn into an apple tree or a cactus.
So far as the example of love for the nieces is concerned..... yes, it happens that we unintentionally start showing appreciation for one more than the other because of their own traits and then the actions create ripple effect. Nevertheless, the situation does not ONLY boils down to the fight or competition between the two. For instance, if you only had Mahnoor (and not any other competitor) with the same kind of rebellion and independent personality she has, would you father be appreciative of her the same way he is of your other niece today?
This is a million-dollar question! As far as I can recall, yes. Before Hajra, he loved Mahnoor a lot because she was his first and only grandchild. So, I believe competition and comparison can change how people see the world and the decisions they make. The same applies to love life. Your husband might find you beautiful, but if he keeps comparing you to someone else, his perspective about you will change.
Let's see it from a different angle @dlmmqb . Before Hajra, Mahnoor was only 2 years old. By that time, her independent personality was not that evident as it is now. So, if she grew up into a personality she is now without Hajra being available for the competition, would your father be appreciative of her or would dislike her behavior.
I won't say he doesn't love her today. It's just he doesn't appreciate her noncompliance.
Here my question is a bit different. Are there no competitors available for me in this regard? There certainly are. Many pretty ladies are all around but my marital life or my husband's love for me are not affected by them. It means the MERE EXISTENCE of competitors or competitions is not an issue. Everything boils down to how we perceive those stimuli and then how we react.
Love makes us blind and change our taste. When there is less competition for love, it's easier to make someone blind in love for things they might not like otherwise.
Long live to your couple life.
Thanks for the good wishes.
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