It's should be a romantic relationship not a business deal

Welcome 🤗 to my page. Let's move on to the second topic for the week.

I gave this topic a very deep thought before writing because I have to analyze what a romantic relationship means and what the word 50/50 means too.

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A romantic relationship is not a business deal that works with percentages, it's far from it, because emotions and mental health are involved when it comes to romantic relationships.

Yes someone may say the man spoke to her so he should be the one to take the responsibility but before you said yes to him as a lady there is also a measure of commitment in your mind, it shouldn't be for selfish reasons because time is involved, I don't like it when some ladies waste years with a man they just have 30% feelings for just because maybe he's wealthy, it doesn't make sense to me.

Those relationship that are 30/70 I don't take them as real romantic relationship, I see such as business relationships because most times it has to do with what the other party has to gain majorly financially so there is no mutual attachment between the two involved.

Just yesterday while I was still thinking about this topic I met two love birds at a suya spot they were arguing over who would make the payment, at first I thought it was an issue not until I listened carefully and I find out that the lady wants to contribute to their daily spending, she said Baby you have spent a lot today allow me pay for this. I smiled at them and passed by.

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That single act shows how caring and concerned she is and that's a 100/100 for me because both are capable and ready to fix whatever comes up.

If one person is not capable people outside shouldn't know about it, both should be able to cover each other's shame and keep the ball rolling, no dirty lining should be washed outside in a romantic relationship, both should have the same level of energy commitment, love, and trust that's 100%.

If it's 100% communication will never be from just one person, yes both should be available for each other anytime any day.

In a balanced relationship conflicts don't take time and both will work hard to resolve them because they can't stay resentful, it will hurt them so much, it shouldn't be that one person is hurt while the other person is happy.

To wrap it up true romantic relationship requires 100% attention, time of both the man and woman involved, then it will be easier to build a yoke that can not be easily torn apart
So I feel it should be 100/100 not 50/50, I think it's a choice, it can't be forced

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