Walk at your pace when it comes to marriage
Compliment of the season once again to everyone here. I love you guys and wish you all a prosperous new year.
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Marriage is a very beautiful thing from my own opinion and I believe that it should be done at the right time. From the topic for this season you will understand that we are in the season where most people are getting married because it is a holiday time and people want to use the opportunity to get married before they can get back to work second week of January. This is a good thing and I do not see why we should allow people to pressure us into depression because ours is not happening now. We should be happy for those getting married and don't let their celebration become a reason why we should be sad.
For some the pressure is coming from inside, while others have their pressure coming from outside. Whatever the situation maybe no one should be pressured into something that we will regret later in life. Marriage is for better for worse. Till date do us part. I believe we don't want to live with regrets all the days of our lives, or live with someone who we don't love all because we are pressured to do so.
Of course this is the time when most of our aunties and uncles make us feel very bad for not getting married. We move at our own pace. Don't let anyone force you to run when we don't have the strength for running. Walk if you have to, walk faster if you can, but don't do what you don't want because of what people will say.
I have seen people who rush in and out of marriage because the were pressured to do so. Any fruit that you plug down before it's time will never be sweet like the others. But if we allow the fruit to ripe before pluging it our we will enjoy it. I have been married for over 25 years and I can tell you for free that you don't rush into marriage because you will also rush out.
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Indeed it's good to move at your own pace and not to let anyone push you, because you can end up regretting. Thanks for sharing
Exactly, no need to rush into marriage just to impress one uncle or auntie that will not be there if things go south.
Exactly, when the processes and procedures are neglected, and people rush into marriage blindly. They will rush out and live in regrests thereafter. So, whatever thing that is worth doing is worth doing well, and marriage is not an exception.
I also believe that people should not be forced into marriage