Humans have emotions despite their gender.

Crying for boys seems as if it was a tabor back then when we were still small. Any little thing that happen only the girls are allowed to cry because they society thinks that the girl child is the one that is vulnerable. But deep within it was not meant to be so.

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The topic for week 203 episode 2 shows that things are really changing from where it was to a better place. Men or boys are allowed to cry out today. This is a very big congratulations to our society. I don't know what they had in mind before, does it mean that men don't have emotions? I don't even know the right questions to ask and who to direct the questions to.

THESE DAYS MEN ARE BEING ENCOURAGED TO BE MORE VOCAL ABOUT THEIR CHALLENGES AND ALSO EMBRACE THEIR EMOTIONS.

I think this is the right thing to do. Because I can't any reason why someone should be going through pains and he will be asked not to say exactly how he feels just because of his gender. Is not fair. O have even see some ladies who are stronger emotional than men. My husband is a very good example. He don't like to see people cry, he can't face ot when any or our child get injured and I try to administer first aid. You will just laugh and get tired. My husband will cry more than that child. Infact most times I will ask him to leave us alone so that I can focus on the child. This is just how God made him. So tell me if is possible to tell someone like that not to express his emotions just because he is a man. That is not fair to men.

There is this other lady I know very well that can beat two to three men at the same time. Haha 😂. Before she got married the father told the man that came to marry her to go because her father thought that she will be beating her husband up everyday. This is a very good example to show us that there are men who react to issues like women and there are also women who react to situations like men.

DO YOU THINK THIS A SOUND ADVICE?

I believe is the best advice we can give to anyone who is going through stuff. This life is full of ups and down. We stay strong when we need to and we stay vulnerable when the need arises. I believe that we are all humans and we go through pains as humans. Hiding what we are going through just because we want to be seen as men can not help us. Cry if you need to cry because by so doing you will drop the heavy load in your mind. This is the way that I see it.

When you hear people talk like that it makes a lady feel less of herself because they say she can cry when she is hurt and the man can not cry. So it appears as if women are very weak and can not withhold any pain without crying out and creating a scene.