Cutting ties with bad eggs

Friendship is a very beautiful gift from God and should be treated that way. In every relationship that I get into it must be because there is something good that I will gain from that person and the person will also gain from me. When none of these is happening then there is no need for the friendship.

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I have seen some people who have really suffered in their relationship and still suffering. They keep hoping that things will get better one day. In every relationship there must be enough green light before it can work properly. I believe that as we talk more on the topic, it will be clearer.

WHAT WE NEED TO CONSIDER FIRST.

The first that I do is that I choose my friends and never allow people who just wants us to be friends to make the choice for me. Friendship is the coming together of people of like minds for the purpose of achieving one goal. If we are not targeting to get one goal, then the friendship is never meant to be in the first place. I can't be friends with you when I know very well that you hate the things that I love. No, it can't work.

SECONDLY
I will also watch to see if things are going as planned even when we have become friends. Friendship is not a secret society that I can't pull out from. Because I can't have a friend who wants to the direct opposite of what I want. Maybe no one is ready to adjust. It must be the way that I want it, and then it must be my thoughts. That is just friendship. That is a relationship between oga and servant. You can't claim to be my friend when I have no contribution to what we want to do. It means that I have no place in your life.

CAN WE END A FRIENDSHIP SIMPLY BECAUSE OF DIFFERENCE OF IDEAS OR OPINIONS?

I don't really need to answer this question twice. The answer is YES. If you don't agree with me and I too can't agree with you, we better part our ways. No one is oga on top here. We are all here to share ideas and learn from each other. But if that can't work and after spending a little time to study ourselves and still think that it can't work. Then let's part ways. Thank God is not marriege of for better for worse. Even in marriage today, partners can decide to stay away from each other for some time pending when it will work out again. We can go our separate ways for peace to rain.

MY EXPERIENCE

Recently I met a situation like that with a friend and I felt very hurt. Too betrayed to continue that relationship. I know that when I continue, that friendship, we can't tag alone. If you are my friend and can't keep my secret, that friendship is gone and never gonna come back again. Because I believe that friendship is all about watching each other's back. If you can't watch my back and I can't watch yours, we have no business together. Go your way and that is exactly what I did. I shot the person out of my heart. The person has actually been going to tell people that she don't know what is happening that I don't behave the way I use to with her. But I didn't even respond because I know what I have faced before and I am not ready for another heart break.

This is my response to hive learners topic for week 184 episode I.