Business is business. What's your take on that?

Glad to talk about this topic with the house today. Welcome back and I believe you are having a good time preparing for Christmas?

Surrogacy!
Years back parents were struggling to talk about sex with their kids because it was never there before. Our own parents never ever discussed sex with us instead we were told that any day a man touches you, you become pregnant. Most of us went into trouble because we never knew what sex was all about. But today is one of the topics treated in schools so as to help our kids know what to do as they grow up.

For surrogacy, so many families have not come to terms with it now because it sounds somehow to them. Someone said how can another woman help you carry your child. But this is just the reality now and we need to embrace it. It has come to stay and there is nothing anyone can do about it.

The question is should the surrogate mother still have a say after the child have been handed over to the parents who now owns her or he?
No. This is a big no.

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Every business on earth has its terms and conditions. Whenever we want to go into any business I believe that we should put that at the back of our minds. You can't do such business and want to go back after the business is sealed to begin to decide how the child should be of what the child should do with his or her life.

Papers were signed and all the legal procedures were carried out. The surrogate mother have no say anymore. In fact she did that because of money. So, this was practically business from the onset. She never wanted to have a baby, but the whole incident was initiated by the real parents of the child and not the surrogate mother. She was only brought into the scene because she needs mother and her money has been given to her. All she needs to do after the child is given to the real parents is to disappear and never to show her face again no matter what.

SHE SHOULD NEVER LOOK BACK

That's is just the fact. What is she coming to do. She never contributed anything to that child except for the fact that she provided her womb to carry someone else child. It was never her baby and will never be her baby. Snd remember she was paid very well to do her job.

Okay, let's take this beautiful example. I am a teacher and parents trust me with the job of teaching their children everyday. Maybe I did my job very well that lead to the fact that the child became a medical doctor. I only did my job as a teacher and I was well paid at the moment for my job. No matter what happens in the future I can lay claims on that child for any reason. I just did my job and so should a surrogate mother look away from that child because it was never hers and can't be.

Maybe if she needs her own child she should go get pregnant so that she can hold onto the child as hers.