Argument, an inevitable day to day experience.

Hello beautiful friends. Welcome back to another edition of week 161. It is an amazing week because we are approaching Easter and I love it so much. There will also be to much eating and drinking

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Arguments comes up in our day to day activities. Some are very intense and some very mild. I believe also that the way it is been handled decided if it will be mild or a serious one. We can not shy away from it. I can boldly say that it is part of life.

Settling argument is one thing that I know is not meant for everyone. For some people when you ask them to come over and settle an argument for you, they will end up spoiling everything for you. So I see it as a special gifts. If you can't do it well, then just let it be or you learn.

HOW DO I SETTLE AN ARGUMENT?
I want to start by saying that settling argument depends on the person involved. There are some people that when you tell them something it won't hurt them. Still some other people won't like the same word you used for the other person. I believe that for me I really need to know who is involved. For loved ones I already know how to deal with the person. If it is some one who do not like too much talk the best thing for me to do is walk away and allow the person for a while. When the person calms down we can revisit that issue again. But for someone that I know Loves stressing everything out properly when it happenes, then I will be patient with that person and settle every thing there and then. I won't cost me anything. One of the major problem we have is always insisting on our ways. When there is a little problem we need to listen to others and know what they want so that peace can reign.

HOW DO I KNOW WHEN TO FIGHT BACK AND WHEN TO REFUSE TO FIGHT?

Argument can actually lead to moments of regrets if we don't watch it. Is not bad to argue, but it is bad to create a bad name for yourself when you argue with someone. Sometimes I need to just let go of my right so as to calm some situations that will bring regret at the end. Mostly argument start when everyone insist on their rights and never willing to let go and be deafeted in any argument. So when it becoming a problem I just let go my right and allow peace to reign.

It also depends what the argument is all about. Yes, I believe that this should even be the first question to ask. If it what we can settle amicably, then let it be. I don't like living in an environment where there is no peace. So, I can let go my right to have my peace. But this does not mean that I can't also stand up for my right.
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