Understanding Is More Matters Than Age

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You must have heard the saying that age is just a number. It means that age is just like a number and is recognized due to one's current physical and mental health. This line is applicable in many places because many times we see that there are very small children and they do such things that even the elders are unable to do and in fact their IQ level is much higher than that of the elders. On the other hand, if we talk about the other side, then many times we also see that the age of people becomes very high and many times they are unable to solve even the smallest problems, so in such a situation we can only say that nothing happens according to age, it is the different talents of the people according to which things happen.

If we talk about the relationship, then it matters further here and I would like to say that there should not be much age gap between two couples because suppose there is a man who is 28 years old and has become quite mature and he has done a lot of good things and he has reached this stage of age. On the other hand, if we talk about suppose the man has a girlfriend who is 19 years old and is about 9 years younger than him, then in such a situation, if their relationship continues, then both of them will have to compromise a lot with each other because there will be many such things of the man that the girl may not like because she has not seen that thing and she is not at that stage of age yet, so it is possible that the girl may take a lot of time to understand some things. It is seen in very few cases that even the younger people are quite mature and can understand the elders according to their level, but in most of the cases it is seen that there is no understanding between the two and then later there is a breakup. I am not saying that this thing is completely wrong because if the thoughts of two people match and both can understand each other well, then age should not come in between the relationship, but if there is no understanding between the two, then after some time, both the people may have to face problems and maybe this may even lead to a breakup.

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I have seen in many cases that the girl is very young and the boy is older, so initially their relationship goes on very well but later on, they start fighting even on big issues and then they fight over such small things that they get fed up with each other. Let us take the same example that I just told you and assume that the girl is in college and the boy is in a job. Now the girl who is in college must have seen the people in her college and she must have seen that they have a new kind of fashion sense and if he is in a job, then it is possible that he does not understand or know about fashion, but the girl wants that the boy should also be fashionable like the boys in her college, but now if the boy does not like all this, then it is possible that there may be a rift between them regarding this matter. The girl does not understand that fashion is a matter of a few days and then it changes again that the boy is older than her and it is possible that he does not like all this and he likes to stay simple. Now if seen, this is a very small thing but if we look at it on a larger scale, then such small things keep happening and then because of these things, small fights start happening between the two couples and then a time comes when both of them think of coming out of the relationship.

According to me, understanding is very important because if there is mutual understanding between two people, then even if they have small fights, those fights should not affect their relationship. And the biggest thing that I would say is that one should not get into any relationship. What I mean to say is that if a person starts thinking that I am better than him and he does more for me and treats me better, then in such a relationship, a time comes when the person who is feeling more affected loses because the person who is in his ego that he needs me and I am better than him or thinks that if I go away, he will not get anyone, then in such a situation it has been seen many times that the relationship always breaks.

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