Should There be a Marriageable Range ?
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Everything has its own age and if that thing is done at this age then it is fine. Like there is an age to go to school, after that there is an age to get a job and similarly there is an age to get married. There was a time when marriage was given at a very young age and there was a time when the bride and groom would see each other only on the wedding day. You yourself think how strange it is that you cannot see the person with whom you have to spend your whole life for so long before marriage and this thought would always keep going on in your mind that how will she be, what will be her nature etc. Now the times have changed a lot and a minimum age limit has been fixed for marriage and nowadays people are looking for their life partner from school or college itself and they want to know everything about their partner which is right in a way because how will you live with an unknown person for the whole life when you do not know anything about him. In the earlier times, people used to get married early and then have children early. Earlier people used to become free at the age of 40 to 50 years because all their responsibilities were over and their children got married. But now things have changed and marriage also happens late.
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Now as the question is whether there should be a limit on the age difference, then commenting on this can be a bit controversial because if we look at both the sides, we will definitely find some arguments. First, let us talk about what can happen if an age limit is fixed. If there is an age limit, then it will happen that the two people who will get married will be of almost the same age and people of the same age often have similar thinking genes and their relationship can be strong. If there is a huge age difference between the two, then it happens that the one who is older is often seen to be dominating, due to which many times problems arise in relationships.
This is about the condition where what will happen if the age limit is fixed. If the age limit is not fixed then there is no harm in it as well because we have many examples of this which have been going on since ancient times. You must have seen that there was a lot of difference between the couples of the past but still their relationship remained strong because they respected each other which is very important for a relationship. It is very important to respect each other and have mutual understanding between both of them, this is the reason why the relationship works well. If a limit is to be fixed then the minimum age limit should be increased further, this will prevent people who get their children married at a very young age and their children will get more time to build a better future so that they can achieve a lot more in their life because once the marriage happens then the person gets settled in the bond of marriage, then he also has to look after his family and in such a situation it is a bit difficult to find time for the future, so there should be limits here.
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I feel that as important as age could be, it could only matter in the case of body maturity.
When two people find themselves willing, ready and compatible,let them have what they desire.
Yes, absolutely. Every person is free.
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I have this theory that the reason why many people end up regretting marriage decisions is because they consider age so much that they forget other more important things to be considered before marriage like the mental readiness.
You are right
There are many other things which are important for marriage and one should pay attention to them.