The Sense of Entitlement.

Though we all have our different characters and this is one of the things that made us unique in our own ways. You meet with some people and the vibe they will dish out will have your mouth opened in surprise. How can such a person behave this way?

Do you really have to blame them?

No! Sometimes we always expect people to be exactly like us or we expect them to be of a level and standard where we envision them to be. But sadly if they don't meet up with those standards we see them as something different.

That’s life, many times I see people who get to put themselves in other people's shoes, they try to feel what others are feeling before they come to conclusions. This is a trait they got themselves used to and it became a part of them.

Blaming people and seeing the faults of people becomes something they throw aside, but why? This is because they rather see faults in themselves first than others. That way they have given room to growth and self worth. They can get to correct their mistakes, practice better and adjust accordingly.

On the other hand are the set of entitled individuals. You can’t blame them too, it’s something they got fond of and it became a part of them.

Though there is always room for adjustment, even that’s if adjustments are not seen as unnecessary. They get so entitled that they just can’t do things without seeing the fault of others.
One of the disgusting characteristics of people in this circle is that they always feel right and perfect. Neglecting the fact that even the most perfect person is yet to be created. So how are you the most perfect?

If they could quickly have a change in their mindsets then it would have gone a long way in shaping their existence. If you encounter this category of people in leadership they have one common goal and that’s “power” to impose things forcefully. They just want everyone to acknowledge their power in decision making, they feel so entitled to the position even when they know it will never last forever.

Only if they knew that leadership is not all about imposing orders by force, it is all about being subjective, and submissive. You can’t be a leader expecting that everyone will have to bow for you.

The mindset has its own power, this is what makes a man think if he can’t get something with ease then he should get it by force. In the end regrets get showered across their souls.

There are times when you earn something, respect can’t be forced. It’s earned. Love can’t be forced, it’s earned, money can’t be forced, it’s earned. So if you can’t work out your way to earn all of these things so they become your entitlement, then you are actually not entitled to anything.